He Never Cums

Soo,I have a question.I have given head to my bf couple of times already,but he never cums.I was the first girl to give him head and he’s the first guy I gave head to.He told me he likes it alot and that it feels good,but he just never cums and its gettin frustrating.How much time is too long for giving head and what can I do to make him cum faster?I looked over the other entries u had about BJ’s but I couldnt find nothing.Thank you=) [aL3xaNdRa]

When it comes to guys and blow jobs or even hand jobs, they can hold out longer then they can when it comes to intercourse. I can’t remember for sure why that is, I think it is because it feel different to then when they are inside a female then when you have your mouth around them or your hands. One guy told me that it is tighter inside a female then it is inside a mouth. There are some guys that can cum faster then other guys even when getting a Blow job or a hand job, but I never found one of them. 🙂

I’m not sure how you give him a blow job, but if he says he likes it and it feel good, then you are doing it right, so that’s a good thing. Maybe what you can do why you are giving him a blow job is to change things up, or if you do change things up, do it a bit more. Try different ways to move your mouth, don’t just go up and down on him, more your head around as you move down on him then move it back the other way as you come up. Pretty much like a half circle, this will give him different ways of feeling your tongue on him plus it can feel your lips differently as well. If you ever have sucked on your finger, you can tell that it feels different, you can feel the top and bottom lips more then you can the sides, pretty much the same way it would be for a penis too.

You can even try using your hands along with your mouth. Either by rubbing his balls, softly grabbing them why you move on his penis or you can even suck and lick on his balls a little as well. All the guys I have given a blow job to liked that I did things with there balls. Alot of the time no one things about doing anything with them, but they do more then most people think for guys.. I have heard plus I have found out. Also you can use your hand to move up and down on the base of his penis why your mouth is on the head of his penis. The head of the penis is where guys get most of their feeling from anyway, so that is a good place to keep your mouth.

As for how much time, well that really depends on the guy, as I said guys can last longer with blow jobs, so it’s hard to say how long it should or shouldn’t take. There really is no set time to when it comes to giving head or anything else for that matter in sex. Though I can see why it would be frustrating for you that he hasn’t. Have you tried talking to him and see if there is something you could do for him that would help him to cum. Yes he said he likes what you do, but sometimes there is something that you can do for him that can help and only he knows.

You can always try giving him a hand job first till he is ready to cum then place your mouth over him and keep moving on his penis why he is cumming. This will give him a better idea of how it feels to cum why he is getting a blow job, it’s not 100% the same way, but he will still get the idea of how it feels to have your mouth around him why he cums. it could be that he just doesn’t know what it feels like so he can’t really get in to it enough to cum why you give him head. He could be thinking to much about wanting to cum this time, since he hasn’t so far, that he can’t relax enough to cum.

Just keep trying different things and see what happens, just don’t make it so that you guys don’t have fun doing it, that will only make things harder on both of you. So just relax and enjoy each other and what is going on why you are doing this. Oh one other thing before I go, you can have him masturbate why you are there instead of you giving him a hand job or a blow job and have him tell you when he is close to cumming and when he is you place your mouth on him, like you would have if you were the way giving him a hand job. Since he already knows what he likes and how he likes it that can help you out to know as well why you watch him. I hope some of this helps you.

Keep trying and GOOD LUCK! Take Care!

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