Sperm spills out, Normal?

Okay i gotta question. When me and my bf have sex and don’t use a condom (I’m on the pill), after he cums inside me, we need to use paper because the sperm spills out. I always thought it was supposed to absorb inside. Is this normal?
I love your diary by the way!

A male’s ejaculation produces on average 200 to 400 million sperm. Having sex in some positions can cause it to leave the vagina because of gravity, so it is normal for the sperm to come back out again if the woman is on top. Though if the male is on top then it is likely that the sperm will not come back out, if it does it won’t be as much as if the female was on top.

If the male is on top and the female has a pillow under her hips then it is a better bet that the sperm will not some out at all, this position is best if you want to conceive, just to let you know. So I wouldn’t worry about it if I was you, it is normal for it to come back out of you. Hope this helps. Take Care!

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January 7, 2006

Flowback is absolutely normal. It doesn’t mean anything like “you’re too loose” or that there’s anything wrong with you or with the semen. It’s just another part of sex’s unglamorous side.

January 7, 2006

Unglamorous my ass. Embrace it, enjoy it. ItÂ’s only gross if you think it is.