Sex before Marriage, Will I go to Hell?

my parents told me that if you had sex before you are married you would go to hell is this true? and by the way i love your diary

This would depend on your religion. Some people would think that if you had sex before you are married then you would go to hell, others may think it is ok to have sex before you are married as long as you ask God to forgive you, and others even may think that if you know you are going to married this person then it doesn’t matter when you have sex, because he/she is going to be your husband/wife anyway. 

I was taught that you don’t have sex before you are married, it is a sin if you do, but if you do have sex before then you need to ask God to forgive you and mean it, then he will forgive you, just as long as you don’t keep doing it. It’s when you know what you do is wrong and yet you still do it is when things start to not look to good. Everyone does things they know they shouldn’t do, but even then just ask for forgiveness and mean it, will things be ok.

I’m sure people will not agree with me on this, as I said before it depends on your religion and what you believe to if you think you will go to hell or not. I don’t know all that much about the Bible, I don’t read it like I should. If you want to know the answer to this question better just read your Bible, the answer is in there. Take Care and I hope this helps!

Sex*Goddess

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November 28, 2005

Wow, touchy question. Good answer.

November 28, 2005

In response to this question,I usually smack people who tell me I’m going to hell for such and such. If you’re Christian? They aren’t God. They can’t judge you. If God forgives you and you make it right,that’s between you and your god. Noone else. If you aren’t Christian (or one of the other near-Christian religions) (c on next note)

November 28, 2005

Typically? You don’t have to worry about hell in the first place(especially if your religion doesn’t believe in it). If you DO,then once again. Other mortal people can’t judge you or tell you if you’re going to hell/equivelent or not. Only whatever superior being you believe in can do that. Just keep that in mind. *nods*

November 28, 2005

Good answer. My two cents on the matter is this: If it’s a moral dilemma for you, at least be sure the person is the one you’ll be with for the rest of your life (or at least marry!). I waited until I was engaged before I had sex. … However, my fiance left me, and it has been Hell on earth since he did.

November 28, 2005

My point is, if it’s going to trouble your morals and ethics, wait until marriage.

November 28, 2005

so after every time that you have sex you ask God for forgiveness? Wouldn’t you think he’d eventually stop forgiving you? Sorry, this is a really weird question, you don’t have to answer that 😛