Not know your on your Period?

hey. i was wonderin, can you be on your period, and totally not know it, and then get fingered, and there be period blood on the guys hands, then you and the dude have sex, but you just dont bleed after? is it that you actually arent on your period? and somthing must have gone wrong? or maybe you are about to get your period, and its just that it hasnt actually come yet? i dont know what is goin on. i really am confused/scared/nervous/whatever about this. i wasnt on my period today(not bleeding) but then that happened..and i have no idea what is going on. please help me out. =) thanks.

~~that one chick?~~

I have never heard of someone being on there period and not know it. I have heard about starting your period and not know it has started that day, but you do end up founding out that you did.  

Sex wouldn’t make you bleed after it, not even if it was your first time always. Your period could have been coming why you and your bf were messing around and you didn’t know that it was due that day. I can’t say that is what happened to you. All I can say is this…

If it was just a little bit of blood on him, more then likely he just cut you why he was fingering you.

If it was a lot of blood on him, then it could have been that you were just starting your period why he was fingering you.

Or if it was a lot of blood it could be something other then you getting your period if it stopped bleeding. If you haven’t gotten your period yet after messing around with him and you still are worried about it (if it was a lot of blood) then you can always go check it out. Better to be safe then sorry if you aren’t sure. I hope this helps. Take Care!

Sex*Goddess

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October 5, 2005

From what the question asked, I’d say it was probably either an internal cut from fingering, or else her hymen tore.

October 6, 2005

Yeah, I’d say it could be light early menstration. Otherwise, you can cause tearing if you were at all rough. Remember, the skin in there is very tender.