Orgasm Question’s

Cant orgasm. I feel myself getting close (through masturbation) but then my clit just gets to sensative and I cant finish the job. im to young to buy a vibrator and am not sure what to do. when you have an orgasm does cum always have to come out or can you just feel so good and call tht an orgasm? how does a grl know she has had an orgasm? like what happens? and can you have a orgasm if youre 14?

I have a lot of posts up here that should be able to answer all of these questions.

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Sex*Goddess

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September 15, 2005

I’ve NEVER had an orgasm either.. threw masterbation, sex, oral… anything. someone told me it was because i don’t relax enough..

September 16, 2005

To the above noter: Yeah, you have to relax, otherwise orgasm just won’t happen. Also, I believe there was recently a study that showed orgasms temporarily shut off the portions of the brain connected to stress and anxiety.

September 18, 2005

…and you’re only 14. Many women don’t have their first orgasm untill they’re in their 20s.

You have to be in the right mindset. Imagining sexy things is the only way I can orgasm. Try thinking of sexy things while you masturbate.