Fiance cums, before I am even close……

Me and my fiance are wonderful and we have sex, and it feels amazing, but he always gets done way before I’m even close to an orgasm. Usually my legs are wrapped around his neck and he has to go hard for it to feel really good. He feels like he isn’t good enough for me. Whats wrong w/ me?

First off there is nothing wrong with you, so don’t think there is. Not all women can have an orgasm with sex alone. Some women need more then just sex to have an orgasm, you could just be one of them, or it could just be that your bf is just not lasting long enough for you to get one. There are a few things you can try and see if it helps, I think I even have someone up aready on this, but I don’t know for sure…. anyway….

First off you can try doing another position, one where he doesn’t have to go so hard to make it feel good. Try one where he can move at a nice rate so he can control how fast he cums. (If he can’t control it that’s ok I will post something up for that as well) Don’t just do the same position, try different ones, this will help both of you out. There are some positions that will be better for you to have an orgasm, and there are some that are better for him to not cum so fast, some that he can control himself.

Also, before you go on to having sex, have a little more forplay. This will help you to get more in to it, also may give you an orgasm before he enters you. Once you have an orgasm or two, then when he goes inside you, it may be easier for you to have one why he is inside of you. I know some women are like that, but not all. The only way to know is to try it out and see.

You may want to talk to him about it as well, let him know that you would like to have an orgasm why he is inside you…. he should be willing to help you out and try new things to see what works for you. Don’t be scared to talk to him about this, he should know what he going on as well. It’s always better for both partners to try and help each other out when they need it, plus it can always make it that much more fun youboth trying to help and make sure you both get what you want out of sex.

As for him learning how to control his self…. most people say this works for them, girls and guys, but most guys do this…. Have him masterbate and when he is about to cum, stop, don’t have him cum, do this a few times, then cum….. he can even do this when he is inside you as well, but most people say to do it when you masterbate, that way you can control it easier. It wont happen over night, it will take some time, but he should be able to control himself if he needs to. I’m not saying he doesn’t know how to, just saying this just incase he doesn’t. There is something up on this I believe but anyway, I hope this helps you. Take Care!

Sex*Goddess

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