Bring Back the Passion

I’ve been with my boyfriend for just over two years. I love him to death but he and I are fighting a lot lately and our sex life has gone pretty downhill, I’m finding it hard to get horny when I’m with him. When I’m home though I do get horny although I find myself fantasizing about other people. I know that I love him, I was just hoping you could help me with some ways to get our sex life back on track. It’s also that we seem to have done everything and there isn’t really much new for us to experiment with. How can I bring back the passion in our relationship?

I looked in the FAQ’s page and none of that was any good, we’ve done it all.

PLEASE help save my sex life!

Fighting with one another is one way to make your sex life go downhill. First you have to stop fighting with one another, that will help you both out in a lot of things, not just your sex life.

Passion is one thing that ends up leaving in a relationship after a few years of being with that person. You’re happy together, content in so many ways; you’ve become cozy and comfortable with one another, and some how the passion that you once had when you first got together is no longer there. There is no formula or direct route to find it, but people can get it back. I don’t know if this will work for sure or not, but here are a few things you can try to help get your passion back

Rent a Romantic movie, one that the both of you would like. Light some candles around the place and put the movie in. Sit down together and hold one another, you can run your hand down his leg or chest why you watch the movie, kiss him a little in some parts that in a way call for it.

Flirt with him through out the day, tease him a little with kisses on his neck, rubbing his shoulders why he is sitting down, run your hand slowly down his back..Do things you know he likes that turn him on, but don’t do anything about it till later on. Let him be turned on off and on all day, till the time comes.

Even though you have done alot of things, try doing some of the older ones again, but change them up, add more it what you do. Like if you like to tie someone up, or you like to use food why you have fun… Put the two together. Mix things up, even though you have done all the things, you can still change how you do them and add more to it.

Leave little notes around for him to see, telling him you were thinking about him, that you love him or you can even just write how you want him to do this to you or that to you…. Call him up at work or something and talk sexy to him over the phone. If you are home tell him that you are thinking about him, or tell him that you are home alone and you are wearing something sexy just for him.

A few people have told me that doing little things like that, helps to keep there passion going, or even helps get it back. It’s showing you care for them and you want them. Hope this helps. If anyone else can think of soemthing please leave a note. Take Care!

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