How to Stretch Yourself.

how can I make myself bigger? Like stretch more? because my bf and I tried to have sex last night and he wouldn’t fit. He couldn’t even fit 2 fingers in me it hurt. Is the only way to masturbate with my own 2 or 3 fingers? Because I’m scared to do that cause it hurts.

If you still have your Hymen that could be why it hurts, because you are tearing it, was there any blood at all? If so it probably is your Hymen. Anyway, There is a way to stretch yourself more, but as for there being no pain, I don’t think I can help with you that. You can masturbate by putting one finger inside and slowing moving it around inside you, you don’t have to put it in all the way, you can just put it in how ever far you would want to at first. Just make sure you move it around making so that it is pushing you open more.

When you do this you will need to be turned on and relaxed, the more you are relaxed the less it should hurt (not always though). It wont be stretched out all the way at first, just do a little at a time if you want, the more you do it the easier it should get to put more fingers inside, to out you up more. You can have him do it for you if you would want, but if two fingers hurt just try one at first.

Once that doesn’t hurt anymore then try using two fingers, Do the same thing… You can always do this another way with two fingers (he may be able to do it better, but you can do it as well) Take both of your hands and use one finger from each of then, placing your fingers back to back, Place them inside you and slowly pull yourself open. (Hope this makes since, trying to say it so you know what I am talking about) Try to move your fingers inside more as well. (if you couldn’t put them in to far last time)

Just keep trying to open yourself more, and add more fingers (if you want) when you feel that you could take it. I hope this helps and makes since for you, if you need me to explan this better just let me know and I will try to explan it a bit better. Take Care!

Sex*Goddess

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gothca! thanks so much! I was stressin out about it and but now I guess I’ll just try harder. My problem probably was that I wasnt relaxed enough.

question about lube for a BJ: What are some safe lubes that I can use while giving a BJ? also Can you get STDs from giving a BJ? How can you prevent them…won’t it be weird giving/recieving a BJ with a condom on?