stuffed turkey

I am done.  So done.  5 people supposed to be coming for Thanksgiving at my house call me at 10am this morning and tell me that they are going down south…would have been fine if I knew ahead of time instead of planning a meal for 14 and now 5 aren’t coming…I’m hurt.  I’m bothered and I am done.  Over it.  I’ve had a hell of a year and I’ve officially learned who I can and cannot count on.  What tends to make this even worse is the fact that I spoke to them last night too and they never mentioned anything about not showing up, instead they say they will come over tomorrow – I told them not to.

But, I am grateful that I am alive, that my kids are healthy and that I have those immediate family that love and cherish me, as I do them.