4/4/06
FEEDBACK:
Men sure don’t know what curvacious is….
Main Entry: cur·va·ceous
Function: adjective
Variants: also cur·va·cious
: having curves suggestive of a well-proportioned feminine figure
Rebuttal:
It was never my intention to bruise or injure ANY female psyche with depictions of women too thin or ‘skin and bones’, when many women are not so inclined.
I have many friends that spend too much time looking in the mirror to answer the whys of their situations. The solutions are in their own faith in themselves, not in their reflections. Men handicap themselves with ugly vs. handsome and prowess issues .. status, car, income. The same confidence women like in a man, men look for as assuredness in a woman; someone happy with herself, as she is. Unless she’s an extreme of some sort, they will overlook anything, if she’s comfortable in her own skin. It’s other members of the gender that spook their friends into feeling a certain way, that and advertising.
I say, if it’s going to alienate you, make you unhappy, give some authority to defend it, simply because the focus isn’t your view, than change it .. or live with it and accept that you don’t need or aren’t willing to fit what someone else has in mind. The only ‘control’ you possess is over yourself. Exercise it! It’s YOUR life.
For ‘Anon. noter’ ~ My most sincere apology. In lieu of a picture of you to appreciate your point deliciously .. here is a more appropriate ‘Eve’ for REAL women with curves .. curvaceous women. I love them! I love watching them. *shivers*
The female form should be worshiped in all of its many forms from sleek angles to sensual curves. Our bodies are AMAZING and each of our differences and so called flaws should be embraced for what they are, not a fault, but something that makes us all unique. Society in general and women in particular seem keen to make other women feel shame no matter her size or shape. We are all beautiful 🙂
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My psyche was not bruised… I’m tougher than that!LOL.. But I know I’m middle aged, and have middle-age spread. It came on quite suddenly and to my surprise! But I also have a 19 yo daughter who has it going for her! And I am proud to be her mother. Most people do not know how overweight I am! That surprises me too. I must carry it well, and dress right and as you say – I am confident in me.
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I walk and talk with confidence and character. I move with confidence and grace. And that may be what they see before my body. Hopefully by the time the young girls with great bodies yet get to be my age and weight, they will have acquired “self” internally. (PS My daughter is way ahead in that game. Mothers are so influencial.) thank you. love – T.
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RYN:Hehehe…Giving Mofo some notes to take, eh?
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RYN: Yes, the perfect girl figure to me is this: Smaller breasts, (like, B or even A cup) and a little thicker thigh and butt area. (I mean, a little thicker than the average supermodel girl form) I love girls with bigger thighs and butts, I don’t know why. And smaller breasts, they’re so small and cute, it’s just so sexy. MMmmmm… If you find a pic of a girl like that, I will drool.
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From what I can see, the girl pictured in this entry has very nice thighs. They don’t have to be huge, but not stick skinny. That’s what I like.
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REAL WOMEN HAVE CURVES! WOOT!
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Well, I’m lucky i guess. I don’t have a body of a 30 something yr old mother of adult children. When I walk down the halls of the high school I still have high school boys whistle and try to get “the hook up” with me. They have even came up behind me asking if I was new here. So yea, I guess I can still turn heads on any street. So I’m told I still have curves in all the right places.
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I just wanted to thank you for your kind note. Glad you stopped by! :)love OD as well, but I am not on here as much as I used to be. My new found love has been myspace, but I do try to update here as much as possible. I will make sure to check out a few of your entries and add you to Faves.
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haha so the artist of that picture stole your body and just added the wings? 🙂 That’s cute. I actually found that picture on an atrists website. I believe if you click on the pic it will take you to the site… and how did you know I was beautiful when you did not see a picture of me?
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Hey Bud, sorry I dissapeared on you again, and I’m going to again lol…but I give warning this time. Kisses
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RYN* Ok, I’m still comfused….maybe I’m having a blonde moment 🙂 BUt y picture isn’t on Strawberry Hedgehogs’ website?
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that is a stunning picture
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