PRIMAL INSTINCTS – SEXUAL ATTRACTION

I suppose I was programmed to fall for a dominant man. Women are nurturers, while men are the protectors, so we’re more sexually attracted to someone confident, strong, powerful, and overall ‘alpha’ than someone who portrays more submissive qualities. Men are likely to be more sexually attracted to a woman who displays the qualities of a nurturer – one who will stay in the ‘nest’ to make and look after babies. 

Nowadays it’s about finding a balance between our animalistic impulses and societal structures and rituals such as marriage and what is considered socially acceptable.

Over the past year, I’ve been very much on the side of societal structure, but recently I met someone who is so dominant, so alpha, that I’m feeling my primal instincts kicking in. It doesn’t make sense in terms of life planning etc, but biologically it reads perfectly.

Today I thought about him while I touched myself. …yesterday as well.