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Its been awhile since I held a Q&A here on OD.  Ask me anything.  I will put the notes to private. I will answer them in another entry.

Here are some of the old Q&A’s….

 

What kind of camera do you use?  I have a Nikon D40 and also a Nikon D5000

Explain the Aaden situation.   Aaden is biologically Deanna’s  Deanna is my partner of almost 9 years.  She stepped outside our relationship once and got pregnant.  I have forgiven and forgotten that.  Aaden was born May 30 2008.  I have no legal rights to him because of our laws here in Texas (and most states).  I love him more than I have ever loved anyone else in my life.  I breathe for him and I will always be here for him. Always Always.  I am scared that one day I will lose him.  Its like being a Mother but not having any legal rights to your own child.

Do you want more kids?  I would LOVE many many more kids.  But-that wont happen.

Name one thing you miss everyday.  I miss my son Geoffrey that I gave up for adoption in 1994 and I miss my parents.

 

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Would you (or Deanna for that matter) consider a donor for more kids?  I would love a donor.  IVF is so expensive. I would like to do a self-home insemination. =)  BUT, we cant seem to find a worthy donor.

 

does Aaden have your last name? I see in pictures that he has two last names.
How come you cant have any kids?  Aaden does have my last name, and also hers.  Holden-Chavarria is his last name.  Poor kid!  I cant have children because I have severe PCOS. 

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Does anyone know of you writing on OD?  Nope…well, just my close friend (L) and I have a couple FB friends that are from here on OD. And of course Deanna knows. No family tho.  I have had this diary for over 9 yrs…Shhhh

 

Have you ever thought of cheating on Deanna to get back at her for what she did to you?  No I haven’t.<span styl

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Are you and Deanna bi or did you just each have times of wanting to be with a guy?  Deanna has had sex with one guy (A’s dad) She has always dated girls.  I dated guys before Deanna.

 

Does Aaden call you both mama?  Yes he does right now.  We will let him decide what he wants to call us when he gets a little older.

 

Do you like Texas?  I love Texas. But I miss my home in PA and I miss my life from there.  If I knew what I know now, we would still be in PA. NO DOUBT

 

did you know some people that have pcos do conceive?  Yes, but I cant.  I haven’t ovulated in 15 yrs. The meds don’t help me at all.

 

Do you feel sometimes the only reason you won’t leave Deanna is because of Aaden? Yes, I will never leave because of Aaden.  I do not think Deanna loves me anymore.  But I love Aaden more than life and he is why I am here today.

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January 11, 2010

Would you (or Deanna for that matter) consider a donor for more kids?

does Aaden have your last name? I see in pictures that he has two last names. How come you cant have any kids?

Do you feel sometimes the only reason you won’t leave Deanna is becasue od Aaden?

did you know some people that have pcos do conceive?

Have you ever thought of cheating on Deanna to get back at her for what she did to you?

Does anyone know of you writing on OD?

Why do you believe Deanna does not love you anymore? Is there something that can be done to change the way the two of you feel about each other?

Are you two still intimate?

Have you and Deanna ever discussed “arrangements” if you two were to ever split? Have you ever thought about having something drawn up legally to give you some kind of right to Aaden? I’ve got two step-children myself and I love them like they’re my own. I don’t think I could walk away leaving them behind. 🙂

January 13, 2010

What color are your panties…lol!

How do you like the Nikon D5000? Would you recommend it? What is your dream job? What have you done or are doing to make it a reality? What do you have planned for 2010? Anything you’d like to achieve or change?

January 14, 2010

are you mad at me?

December 5, 2010

I have to comment just because… my friend and her partner did the home thing.. and they had a “friend” donate in the bathroom and she used a turkey baster… upside down on her head.. and she got pregnant on the 2nd try that cycle! woohoo!!