Thank You Anne @ Credit Card Services

             Sunday morning I met Laurie at the boathouse and took a turn in her single scull. It is so different from rowing sweep, but I think I will like it.

I worked the rest of the morning on the presentation for the membership meeting. My stomach was back to “churning mode”. I just wanted to get it all over with and have my life back.

My rowing peep Amy who left the club a few years back dropped by with a box of cookies. She is such a sweetheart. I was able to get information from her when I was researching past meeting minutes and elusive paperwork.

I was just about to get into the shower when Nancy stopped by. I filled her in a bit. She left the club due to the ongoing drama two weeks previous.

I wanted to get to the boathouse early enough to get things set up for the meeting.

The meeting went as well as could be expected. Ted, the instigator of the current drama made a public apology of his outburst at the board meeting which cinched the deal of me leaving the club. He said, “Jamie, I hope you will forgive me and we and be friends and row together again.” I replied, “Ted, I accept your apology, but I doubt we will ever row together again.”

I feel as if a huge weight has been lifted from my shoulders.

It will soon be a month that my little Daggy has been gone. The pain is subsiding and I know I made the right decision. It seems I’m catching movements from the far corners of my eyes now and then, so I like to think just perhaps she is checking in on me and Stumpy to assure us she is at peace. I can’t thank my friends here at OD and elsewhere who have helped me to get through this.

I knew I turned the corner Monday morning. First thing I went to the post office and sent Dan Savage off his bricks. The flat rate box weighed 30 pounds for three bricks! I returned his E-mail explaining there was a heavy package on the way and including the tracking number. I have acquaintances that Dan is close with. I gave him their names and told him to do a Google search for my name followed by fire hydrant as my life is a pretty open book in that aspect on the “innertubes”. I explained how I realize he deals with “batshit crazy” people daily and I was not in that league. He sent me a reply…YES!!

That acknowledgement had me in such a good mood…. then the phone rang….this call was from “Anne” at Credit Card Services to lower my interest rates. Oh boy…..I pressed 9 to speak with a customer representative. “Hello this is “whatever”. Are you responding to lower your interest rates?” the voice at the other end of the line intoned. “Well yes.” I answered, “I just spoke with Anne at the start of this call. I’ve never talked to her before, I always spoke with Rachel. Is Rachel still working for you?” There was heavy breathing and then the line went dead! That woman was so pissed! I’m still laughing just thinking about it.

It is funny how an event like this can be the signal a corner has been turned in your life. Thank you Anne at Credit Card Services…I’m looking forward to your next call!!!

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October 1, 2013

I always know I have made the right “gut” decision when I get that overwhelming feeling of relief! I bet you will enjoy sculling if you go on with it…

October 1, 2013

You are too funny, picking on those silly “credit” people! I am glad that you told Ted exactly the truth, that you forgive but will not forget his actions. I doubt very much his rowing offer was sincere anyway – and if it was, well, you have enough crazy in your life! Daggy is probably checking in on you and her brother. Seems to me she is letting you know all is well. <3

October 1, 2013

I just knew those who loved rowing with you would emerge and show support! I think about Stumpy being without a pal–our lab Annie had to stop eating before we picked up on her missing Gus our bullmastiff–that all changed when Charlotte came bouncing into the house Glad you are feeling better on lots of levels!

October 2, 2013

Oooooh, you’re sending bricks to Dan Savage! Sweet!

October 2, 2013

Our condolences on Daggy…I know it hurts.

October 2, 2013

yes. the corner is turned. and that is a great relief to know.

October 2, 2013

yes. the corner is turned. and that is a great relief to know.

October 3, 2013

Yes, you sound bouyant. It’s grand to let go of heavy weights and move on. Yes, too, for years I saw Sterling out of the corner of my eye. 🙂