Where do I begin???

Well I don’t even know where to start… My mother in law is all moved in with us now and she’s been a BIG help around here. She helps keep the place cleaned up and I could do better with that 🙁  I feel kind of bad about that… Yesterday she got rid of her 2 littliest dogs. I felt bad for her but relieved at the same time. Having 5 dogs in the house was NOT fun but they were good dogs for the most part. Onen of them had an accident 3 times but 2 out of the 3 it was easy to clean up, I was SOOO pissed when her dog pissed on my carpet in my bedroom RIGHT in front of me! She told me that her hopefully soon to be EX husband texted her and told her "I’m moving home to Ryan road for better or for worse" and Ryan road was where they used to live (he told her that on Wednesday) so after I got done taking care of the woman I take care of on Wednesday’s I went to the courthouse and picked up an Order or Protection form and brought it home to her. I didn’t tell her I was doing it. I showed it to her and told her that we need to cut ALL ties. I told her that she should take his family off facebook and we should change her number so she took everyone off facebook on Wednesday and then yesterday we went to change her number. The nice thing about that is that they didn’t have to call him this time to say that a change was being made to his account and ask him if it was ok that the line get taken off like all of the other times. Then for some reason one of his daughters was still on her friends list, I know that when we looked she was not on there so I don’t know what that was about but then her daughter (My sister-in-law) must have felt like being a crabby bitch cause she wrote to my mother in law and said "I thought you were going to cut ties with him, you are still friends with his daughter." There is a nicer way of going about that. She’s been a moody bitch lately, I’ll get into that some more in a min. When we moved my mother-in-law back she was driving too fast so my mother-in-law couldn’t keep up in the U-Haul and then she wasn’t going to come to my house to help unload but we told her that she had to and she was pissy about that and then her LOSER fiance who is 58 and she’s 27 he’s got a problem with drinking and they’ve gotten into some fighhts about it. His ex wife is my neighbors mom and he said that he has beaten the shit out of her and right in front of her kids… NICE huh???   What a fucking winner THAT guy is!!! Anyways so she told him that if she is forced to help unload then so is he… so as we got closer she called him again and found out that he was drinking and that started some shit… What kind of person does that when you know you have to go help someone move???

Soooo Paul and I decided to re-new our vows in a little over 2 and a half years   This should be an exciting thing for us and everyone around us that is involved right??? WRONG! So first it started with talking to my mother-in-law about who I would have involved if we decided to do the big route with having people IN the vow renewal (as though we were getting married) and I told her that I don’t know if I would have Crystal (my sister-in-law) cause I am not close with her and my mother-in law’s response was "Well if you want to stay friends with her I would include her." This is OUR day and people are telling us how we should do things and I HATE that! So I just thought ok, whatever cause she said that she was supposed to be involved in her brother’s wedding and at the last minute they decided not to have her in it and that upset her and she thinks Crystal would want to be involved. SOOO if Crystal is involved then Carissa (Her daughter) will have to be too- GREAT I am NOT paying for their shit! Anyways so I texted Crystal and this was how the conversation went… Oh and keep in mind that when I went to try on the dress I found online my mother in law sent her a picture of it and she never responded to it… OK so here goes..

Me:  In 2 years your bro and I are renewing our vows. If we do it up big you & Rissa will be in it
Crystal:  Why 2 years why not on ur 25th ann or something wouldn’t that b more special
Me:  For our 10 year cause my family wasn’t there the first time and I wanna do it while my grandparents and yours are still alive. Already got my dress!
Crystal:  O
Crystal:  Ya I got that pic but thought u were fuckin around puttin on dresses cause ur already married didn’t think u were that materialistic where u needed to actually buy a white dress an all. Two years hope you stay tha size u are now! Don’t eat for two years lol!
Me:  I’m not and I just thought it would be nice for MY family to see us do it and it’s important to both of us to do it in a church!!! If I gain weight they said they could altar it. Thought you would be happy to be included but if you don’t care then that’s cool too. We don’t know what we’re doing just that we wanna do it!
Crystal:  Not that I don’t care just that it’s all over rated tha more I see everybody havin weddings tha more I think it’s a crock of shit! Guess I’m just really not into what everybody else is and id rather spend my money to go away on a trip w my family lol!  (BY THE WAY SHE HAS NEVER I MEAN NEVER CARED ABOUT GOING ON A FAMILY TRIP! THE ONLY TRIP SHE WANTS TO TAKE IS TO ITALY WHEN HER DAUGHTER IS 18 & OUTTA THE HOUSE!!! She doesn’t care about ANY of that she just cares about herself and boyfriend/fiance she’s selfish. Her mom watches her daughter every other weekend while she works and she stays at her fiance’s house and she wasn’t even gonna go home today after work to let her mom in the house but she forgot her mom didn’t have a key! A NORMAL mom would want to see her kid after school and at LEAST say goodbye if you were not going to see them for the weekend!!!)
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: larger”>Well we have always talked about doing it and we have always talked about doing it in a church, and since our 10 year is in 2 years might as well, hopefully people stay alive till then. My dad and grandma are not in the greatest health. Who knows maybe we will have no one and just be him and I and no one else standing up there with us but this is something we have always talked about since we got married so fast. Who knows what will happen but people renew their vows, my Aunt and Uncle are doing the same thing, they got married in a courthouse too with not many family around. But you can be involved or not if we decide to go that route. We have 2 years to get things slowly if that’s what we wanna do but it’s something that is important to us!
Crystal: Hey Good for you guys im in a bitchy mood i don’t mean to put it on u im just puttin in my opinion bout how it just seems that everybody has to get married have babies buy houses an so on nothing to do wit u im just a bitch right now kinda sick of people havin that have it all an I work my ass off everyday! So sorry I get irritated once in awhile!
 Me:  It’s ok, I have those days too hon! You’ll get there we had to work our asses off- took us a while but we finally got there. I’m noy trying to have a know it all attitude or anything or trying to make you feel bad and I’m sorry if I did 🙁  We’re still working our asses off actually to get what we have now, it sucks!!!
Crystal:  No it’s ok just me! I have my period an im overly bitchy just exhausted an my wk off is goin by fast! Just get irritated wit fuckin people!

What it all boils down to is that she was jealous of the fact that we are getting to do these things like take family trips to Disneyland and we have a house and stuff and she doesn’t get to do those things, We work our asses off and make better financial decisions and save up for things and you have to make good decisions from the beginning of your life and if you mess up you pay the consequences!!! We don’t have this shit handed to us. Oh well

His cousin did tell me what the baby’s name is so that was cool OH and we only owe $600 on the ring my husband bought me and after today it will be $200 (we got it un July and it was expensive) AND the paper chain I put up is on 3 walls instead of 4 and well let’s just say that I will get to see my husband for his R&R VERY soon!!! We’re gonna get a room that first night     

That’s all for now!!!