Bipolar with Mania

So I was diagnosed, back when I was 14 years old, with bipolar disorder with mania.  I’ve never experienced a period of time when I was hugely depressed.  I believe everyone gets depressed at times, but in my case, with bipolar, one needs to hit both highs and lows of the spectrum.  I however hit way way above the spectrum with mania that i cannot control.  I have periods of high energy and fast paced activities I engage in and then I become a moody, pissy, grouchy person.  Mean, more like it.  For example….I cooked a Chicken Ranch Pasta dish for dinner compliments of Pinterest and i was happy doing so and very energized about it.  My husband called telling me he was on his way coming back from a church service (he is a Pastor), and I immediately became very irritable and mad.  Pissed, so pissed in fact that I didn’t eat any dinner.  Normally I would and then immediately purge, but I became so, in fact, pissed, about him coming home and being late at that, that i refused to touch the food, lying so that I told him I ate before he came home.  The whole time he was coming in the house i was stewing over how pissed I was at him.  I don’t know exactly why I become like this.  I will also do this coming home from my job where I am a three to four year old teacher of a daycare class of 16 students.  I will be driving home and BAM, when I walk in the door I become the biggest grouch, B!TCH, and be pissed at everyone and everything.  Something switches in me.  I just forget that i was happy and become a huge pissed off person and for absolutely no reason.  The same can be said about church mornings.  I’ll be looking forward to church and once i get there, I am pissed at everyone and even replying to someone with a Hi I have to say it with gritted teeth so I don’t verbally bite their head off for even looking at me.  Ugh!  It’s like a light switch and the mood switch happens as fast as you can turn off a light switch from on to off.

The mania is somewhat controlled.  I am on a slew of heavy duty drugs to keep the mania under control but it isn’t.  I thrive on being manic.  I can get SO much done and everything is so BRIGHT and CHEERY and FAST and WONDERFUL.  I never see any grey.  I see only, ONLY, black and white.  Hence me seeing ONLY FAT OR THIN.  No in between.  I am right now FAT… not THIN, FAT.  I will consider myself FAT until I hit below 100 lbs.  Then, and only then I might be fat not FAT.  I don’t know when I will actually be THIN or thin.  I know this makes absolutely no sense….to normal people. It makes a load of sense to me.

If I am not on my medicine I go off my rocker and become a mania induced psychotic babbling person.  I make no sense and i have not much recollection of being in my body.  I see myself from above the floor watching myself from above, when I am manic.  When I first got married, in 2006, I went off ALL my medicine cold turkey.  I spent the next week in a manic episode where my husband remembers everything i did and finally called my parents where upon seeing me, hauled my ass to the psych ward.  I was told I did laundry OVER AND OVER again and began speaking my own language, one of which only I understood.  I neither ate or drank, passed bowels or urinated, never slept…I was a mess.  When I came to in my right mind in the psych ward, I was beyond pissed.  I had NO idea WHERE I was and WHY I was in a room BY MYSELF.  I was pissed….not scared, not sad, not angry….PISSED.

Since then, the pissed mood resembles me being the pissed person I was when I came to at the psych ward.  I cannot verbalize how angry and mad I become.  I had, at one point, become so pissed/angry/mad that I began crying uncontrollably….simply because I could not put on a bracelet.  It’s the little things that do that to me.

I just took pain pills and a prescription drug for anti-inflammatory.  My lower back has been killing me as well as my pelvic region, coincidentally where my pelvic kidney is located and the same kidney that was lacerated in the accident I haven’t drunk anything all day and haven’t eaten either so I haven’t even peed.  Probably not good.

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