Is there a Mole amongst us** Edit

 

.One would think  so..

Oh how things have changed here on the home front ..

So much being done ,

So helpful.

I thanked him as I always do , if it was a job I was about to do and I caught him doing it ( you know what I mean) he said I like to help , I like to do my bit.

I have not spoken but two words about the subject.. and yet it is all going well.

I did go on strike and not do the chores.

I worked a full on day , cleaned and washed and put away and then sat on the couch with the paper and my feet up.

Suddenly dinner was on a plate on my knee. 

I worked a full day , cleaned up , shopped and surprised him with a birthday party of special friends..

Washing was done hung and folded..

The dishes are getting done the washing is done , dinner is started , messes disappear.

We sat on the couch the other night , I told him how much I appreciate the help he is giving me , I said i was feeling rather tired of doing everything and that I had thought we might have to have a sit down and chat about chore sharing, Its so nice to see you doing it of your own accord.. Thank you so much.

He never said a word …

Oh well..

He seems less depressed, Maybe it is because he has had his birthday and he got what he wanted.. plus a small gathering of friends as a surprise. . Maybe he has seen the lengths I go to..

I like the way things are going and will be keeping an eye on them .

Chore sharing makes my life way less hectic. !!!

🙂

PS: I doubt he has been here and read, as I have never told him of the name or site , I have barely told him of my Online diary.  He would have no idea where to start.

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Sparky has been over helping me in the garden for the past week. Monday, Tuesdayand came back Friday. We went to the plant shop grabbed a few trees and specials and he has planted them this morning , he stayed over , I woke this morning , snuck a cuddle and said I was getting up to help Sparky in the garden .. TOH said … ohhh , *sigh* ..

I told him he didn’t need to get up straight away , but when he did could he please strip the bed.. he said Sweet , he just want a little lie in and then he planned on doing the washing and tidying up etc…

I was gobsmacked…

I stayed for 10 mins more .. (wink wink) and then went and weeded the gardens and moved the plants about with Sparky.

TOH has washed and hung the laundry , swept and cleaned the floors, cooked lunch for Sparky and I and is now doing dinner, he has planned our night of Movies and a few drinks too ..

I said wow , I am impressed thanks for lunch , this is awesome , and he said that due to his alergies he can’t help in the garden so this is something he can do .. hmmmm

Yep .. is a Happy house.. 🙂 

 

TTFN..xox