World’s Biggest Jerk!!!!

Have you ever met a guy that you though was perfect? You know, the kind you can see spending the rest of your life with. I met one such guy, he even asked me to marry him. He was soo sweet and kind and I loved him instantly. We spent 4 years together. 4 years in which I thought we were happy. Then one day he threw me into a wall. several weeks later he tried to choke me out over a table. However, before all that happend things seemed great. Although our relationship was long distance him being stationed at Nellis AFB and meyself living in CA things were good. We talked every day and saw eachother most weekends. Then he moved off base to a house. He invited me up and I got in an accident on the way there. I called him. He came and got me. We spent a week talking about how life would be when we got married and all that fun stuff. How we’d bring his son down to live with us and maybe have one more so the little boy wouldn’t be lonely. The day before I left the phone rang while he was at work. I answered it. It was Julie ( she’d been his girl friend when we first met, but they’d broken up months before). Suddenly my cell rang. He was calling from work to yell at me for answering the phone and told me I had better be out of the house before he got home from work. My car was sitting in his garage nearly totaledand not driveable. How was I suposed to leave? I managed to limp the car onto the highway and part way to a hotel before the tire blew. I called a tow truck and Josh, my boyfriend whos house I’d just left. Tow tuck was going to be a while so I put my seat back and tried to get some sleep, no easy task when you’re sitting off the side of the freeway. I was stranded for a week in Vegas with no place to go. When I got my car towed to a shop it was 4am. The driver took me to a hotel and droped me off.

Fast forward to a month later. He called and said he was coming into town and asked if I would meet him. A little leery, but I figured I love this guy so I’ll give him a chance. He told me how sorry he was and swore it would never happen again. Things went well for a while then he got shipped overseas for 6 months. We emailed back and forth telling how things were going and that we loved eachother. He got back and didn’t call for nearly 2 months. ( as sad as this is I still took him back when he fineally called) He’d moved again from the house to an appartment. I had a job doing security at concerts in Vegas and needed a place to stay so he said come on up. I did. We spent the next year with me coming to see him on my off weekends and staying there on my work weeks. Life was good. Then my grandfather remarried. I needed a date for the wedding. He agreed to come with me. While at the reception he starts saying all these things about he’s never getting married and blah bah blah. Here I was wearing my engagement ring, that he gave me and he says that. I let it go. We moved in together a couple weeks later and for a time life was good. Then a friend of his got married, we went to the wedding. At the reception he starts saying the same thins. This time I couldn’t let it drop. We had a huge fight. That night he threw me into a wall and scared me half to death. I was in shock. My perfect guy was begining to be not so perfect. I found out a month later I was pregnant. He said he wanted out. We had broken up, but were still living together. 3 weeks later I miscarried after he chocked me out on the table. I was done. I soent months trying to figure out if things could have gone differently. Maybe if I had just tried harder I could have worked things out. But in the end it was his selfishness and anger problems that caused our break. I did evrything I could to make him happy. Gave, gave, gave and gave some more, but nothing I could do made him happy.

About a year after I left him I met a really great guy and got married. I have a beautiful daughter and life is good. We’re very much in love with eachother as well as our little one. I moved far away and never thought about him again.

Then out of the blue a couple days ago he called. He got my new number when I tried to call my cousin. I didn’t hear the messege right and wrote the wrong numbers. Turns out it was my ex’s new cell number. I realized who it was and let it drop appoligized for having called and lost the number. Now he wont let me be.

I know it’s not good to give personal info on the net, but if you are female you need to know this name: Joshua Thomas Smith. He’s stationed at Nellis AFB, NV. DOB 06-04-1979. If you meet him or have ever dated him odds are good it was me he was cheating on. Now he claims to be engaged to some other girl. If you know her show her this messege and help her get away before it’s too late. Don’t let Jamie get hurt by him.