Missed Birthday

 Today is my companion/caregivers b-day, and there was nothing I could do for him or give him due to me not being able to get out. He understands, but I feel so bad. We have been together for almost 40 years and when I was young and in good health, he got the works, gift, card, dinner, homemade cake. So sorry I can’t do that now. I feel he would be better off without me, then he could get a life. I don’t think that day is far off. The best b-day gift I could give him is giving up my life so he can have his.

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August 3, 2013

Awh hun it’s not your fault if your health isn’t what it used to be. I’m sure he understands. Please think of yourself in a more valuable way because you are. We all are ….sending lots of hugs. ………..

August 3, 2013

I’m sure he understands. And I’m sure he doesn’t feel that he would be better off without you. You may be limited in what you can do now but I’m sure you would understand if the shoe was on the other foot wouldn’t you?

August 3, 2013

I’m sure he doesn’t feel that way and that he understands. Please don’t say that. It makes me sad. You still have a lot to give even if not the material things.

August 5, 2013

He would never agree with your thoughts today…..*HUG*

August 8, 2013

I’m sure he understands too, and would rather have you with him.