inconsiderate!*

I don’t know how many times I am going to try and see my stepchildren’s mother as a normal person.  I need to stop.  Because she is not!  She is incredibly rude and inconsiderate of us, and she likes to try to "make the rules" when it comes to when we see the kids.. at least that is how I see it.

For those of you who don’t know i’m just going to give you a quick, bulleted, background:

• Dave dated her for awhile
• she became pregnant
• they got engaged, never married, she just never wanted to , no money, whatever.
• kids were born, she insisted they have her last name.. bitch! (sorry)
• they lived all together in a trailer until the girls were about 2
• then they broke up
• a month later she was pregnant with another man’s baby
• he never has had the visitation he deserved with them..
• anyway, fast forward,
• the year we got married, she decided that she was going to move to Kentucky with the girls to be with this man she had an "internet relationship" with
• Dave conceded, thinking the girls would have a better quality of life, aka, not live in a craphole, if they were down there.
• Nothing was ever changed in the custody papers for this move
• She married him almost immediately upon arriving, so that she would have reason to fight Dave in court if it was ever necessary.

ok, now they are supposed to be delivered to us at least once every three months.. which, according to my calculations is, FOUR, not three, times a year.  So far, every year, three times!

now on to my annoyance for today, they are here, one day late (just like the last time they were here) and Dave was supposed to meet them at 5:30pm to pick them up in a town 1/2 way between here and Olean.  ( she always insists on driving them, not flying, but refuses to actually bring them all the way here.. mind you the airport is approximately 20 minutes from my house..  whatever)

So he is supposed to get them at 530, at 332-ish he gets a call that they have just entered a movie theater in Olean to see Harry Potter.  No explanation, no asking, no consideration AT ALL!  Just sorry we’ll be about an hour later.  So dave gets to springville at 630pm and gets a call… Oh Sorry the movie ran longer than expected, they were about 50 minutes late!!!!!!!!

un-f-ing-believable!!!!!!

and, of course, she plans to go home on her expected date although they came here almost 2 days late.  Supposedly Dave is going to let her know that he does not want that to happen, but we’ll see.  She always just expects Dave to do whatever she wants.  and he did.. until I came into the picture..

as you can probably guess, I am not her favorite person..

whatever..

i don’t care..

there’s other scenarios that I want to relate but I haven’t got the time.  Let’s just say that she does this over and over and over again.. EVERYTHING is turned in to a hassle..

ugh!

My husband is so non-confrontational with this woman it is sickening!!  Heaven forbid he rock the damn boat! AHHH!!

Apparantly he didn’t really say anything to her when he picked up the kids.. Understandable i guess, since the girls were within earshot.. so he’s going to call her..

we’ll see if that actually happens…..

 I better not hold my breath.. I will surely die