um, ok, wow

I just found out my big sister (my sorority sister) is pregnant.  She just turned 21, and I mean like literally about a month ago, 12/2.  I’m in a little bit of shock.  It’s so weird to hear about.  And Angel has been texting me about that @sshat she was seeing.  Apparently he finally pushed her into acknowledging his complete creepiness.  She is contemplating getting a restraining order and I am encouraging her to it.  I haven’t forgiven her entirely but now is not the time or place.  I’ll deal with it when I go home for spring break or something.  

But back to my sister, she and Jayson (who may be the baby’s father) are going to get together Saturday and decide whether or not they are going to keep the baby.  So we’ll see what happens.  It’s going to be an interesting weekend at least.

And I talked to Hunter today too, about the question I had that I talked about in my last entry.  We decided it was a ‘serious conversation’ question and we would address it when he got back to town.  We talked for a while besides that.  Apparently he has planned to change a lot in his life, like how to tell people No.  He is one of those guys that a lot of people ask favors of and he can’t really say no and I keep telling him he needs to find out what he wants and worry about that more than about what will make everyone else happy.  And he said that apparently that has really inspired him to make some changes.  That has me slightly worried.  Not a lot but enough that I’m suddenly wondering if the Hunter coming back will still be my Hunter.  Obviously he won’t be entirely and I can live with that but I just mean, I hope that who he is hasn’t changed all that much in a month.  I mean, I liked him the way he was and I told him so and he just laughed.  I told him that I would hold my judgement until I’d seen exactly what these changes he was talking about were.  Then I’d decide if I liked them or not.  He said he could accept that for now.  I highly doubt that whatever is going on is going to have changed him so much that I’ll just walk away or something.  But I guess we’ll see.  He probably won’t be coming home on his birthday so I don’t know when I’ll get to see him next which makes me sad.  Sunday would have been so perfect because I don’t have any classes that Monday (classes don’t start until 4pm and my lab was cancelled since the lab earlier that day wouldn’t be meeting).  But oh well.  Guess I’ll have to wait and see…

I hate having to be patient. :

~*~*~Blessed Be~*~*~