what do i do?

 Memory called last night and holy crap on a cracker it was insane. 

If you remember our prior drama she came over drunk, then a few weeks later called apologized we got into a fight and it turns out she was drunk… 

She called last night, the first 10 mins i sat there listening to her tell me how disrespectful I was, how i hurt her feelings, how she relapsed but it was no big deal because she was at such a low point in her life, and how she would never do that to my kids… 

I then said I didn’t really want to talk because i didn’t want to fight,she told me she was done with me and didn’t want a relationship with me… fine.. I then said do you want to set a date? I told her that Mike(her husband) needed to be there. She didnt’ like that and asked what would happen if Mike asn’ there i said i would leave. 

She then told me i don’t get to make the rules, i told her i pushed those kids out of my vagina i get to make the rules i am their mother thats how that works. she didn’t like that either. 

She then told me that she has "heard" that my mother gets drunk all the time and lets her blood sugar levels get so low and that my mother needs to be treated the same as her… 

1. are you kidding me?

2. my response – I am getting my kids daycare for when i go back to work, the longest my mom is alone with the children is a couple hours and we test her blood before she is alone with them. its none of your business anyway memory. (she didn’t like that.) I said my mom has HEALTH issues you are an alcoholic two different thigns.. she didn’t like that either. 

 

anyway eventually seh called me a narsasistic hypocrite and i laughed and said who in tihs world isn’t a hypocrite.. then she said that she was just as much a grandparent as my parents were.. i said no not really because my parents are parents and they riase those kids day in and day out.. she said and i quote "that is so unfortunate for them"….. she said that twice.. i flipped and called her a pill poppin drunk, i told her she can’t take care of herself she messed up her kids then i calmed down and said now if you want to set a date lets do that…

she said this weekend.. i said i’m busy she laughed and said of course you are. I told her that friday i have plans, saturday i have plans and sunday i might have plans… she said Sunday then, and i said well i don’t know i might have plans, she SCREAMED Sunday i want to see them Sunday COMMIT CHELSEA – so i said fine i’m busy Sunday lets do something next weekend… she got mad freaked out on me and hung up…. 

 

I am so tired of this crap.. there is much more that was said and done… i’m so tired of this. She denied being drunk a few weeks ago when she called me and we got into our last fight.. i told her lying doesn’t help the situation and I know that she was drunk. 

I also told her I don’t know why she can’t just put her pride aside and be want to see her kids…  

The next time i talk to her (which i’m assuming will be a month from now) I am going to ask her this "why would you rather call me and my family down, and put us in our places then make a date to see your grandkids? why is your pride more important than those kids?"

We all assumed she would of called and apologized, she didn’t.. its scary how much like Shaun she really is. 

i think its hilarious that they are talking again… because no one would tell her about my moms blood sugar levels. What a joke. 

I am at a loss for words. 

I don’t even know how to handle this situation or her anymore.. like who does this? 

she doesn’t care about the kids… 

I told her that the rules stay the same and that we will meet in a public place with mike and in time we will build a relationship and things will change. "I don’t want a relationship with you i’m done with you"….. "ok so in time things will change" thats EXACTLY how that went… what a biotch.. a psychotic biotch.. 

Her and Shaun are true blue sociopaths.. its no wonder he is so messed up. 

they just repeated the cycle and i will say that to her… nicely though.. 

I only snapped after she called my parents down.. i called her a pill poppin drunk.. she likes it when i get mad its so hard to control myself. I told her flat out i didn’t want to be aloen with her, because i have a temper and i don’t filter when i get mad, i think its healthier to have someone around.. she didn’t like that.. she doesn’t like to be told what to do.. sound familiar.. 

 

anyway what are your thoughts on this? 

 

Chelsea.