For Those Who Care –

10/19/2008 – SO SORRY! Repair of a broken link on an old entry brought this up to the top of the favorites list, AGAIN!  Sorry!

 

 

To those who could care less about my answers to these questions, please forgive this self-indulgent exercise. 

 

I’ll try to return with an entry of more appeal soon.   

 

Thanks! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Noter:  “Nunz, I think you need to do this three question exercise that Red and Ionuin have posted …  I can only imagine the kinds of things your readers will ask.”

 

 

 

 

 

Nunzio:  “HA!  Well, why don’t we start with you and see if anyone else follows?  Go ahead, what’s on YOUR mind?”

 

 

 

 

 

The questions came, many private, some public.  (I was surprised to have questions from some people I didn’t even know read me.)  I’ve reposted all the questions anonymously.

 

 

 

 

1. You have a week to live – what do you do in that time?

 

Try to correct all the errors I’ve ever made.

 

 

2. Do you play an instrument?  If not, is there one you would like to play?

 

 

No I don’t.  I tried the sax as a kid (cause I thought it made me look cool) but I really thought I’d like to try the piano … until I met the Violin.  I was about 7 years old the first time I heard one and I could not believe the emotion it evoked in me.  To my ears, it is such a hauntingly beautiful sound.  To this day, it takes about 90 seconds before the tears come.

 

 

3. Favorite band or mus

ician?

 

 

I like the old guy, Mick Jagger, and Bruce Springsteen.  Andrea Bocelli is a recent favorite.

 

 

4. Favorite food?

 

 

Being ½ Italian it’s pretty much anything of that fare.

 

 

5. Your best feature (physical or non-physical)?

 

 

I’ve been told enough to believe it … Probably my mind and my sense of humor.  (I used to be “pretty” but that was years ago.)

 

 

6. What first attracts you to a woman?

 

 

“Attracts, attracts?”  If you mean like tits, ass, legs, or whatever, that’s not it for me. 

Well, wait a minute … I do look at an attractive woman like the rest of the world but that holds my attention for about 9 seconds …

ok, ok … 20 minutes!  Allright … lemeealone!

What draws me in is her sense of humor (defined as whether or not she thinks my shit is funny) … and her brightness; can she do the banter with me?  What is really attractive to me is her, “Absence of need.”  That is, she is drawn to me because of something other than fulfilling a need for her.  She doesn’t “need me” emotionally or financially.  I think one of the ugliest components of the human condition is that we frequently make “love” decisions based on filling a perceived “need.”  No matter how romantically you phrase it, “need” destroys relationships!

 

 

7. Do you have a theme song?  (If not, make one up. :P)

 

 

“Oops, I Did It Again!”  Cause I keep fucking up … err, making errors!

 

 

 

 

 

8. Say you were elected President of the U.S. of A.  What is your first act in office?  (Break in the good ol chair? ;))

 

Well, “I got a blow-job in the world’s most powerful chair” or, “We fucked on Thomas Jefferson’s desk,” does have some excellent story value to it. 

 

 

But seriously folks, I’d do my best to make equality an ABSOLUTE in this country and not a concept.  Black, White, Woman, Man, Gay, Straight, equal pay for equal jobs and THAT’s the way it’s going to be and don’t try an bullshit me, your new President!

 

 

 

 

 

 

9. I notice in some of your notes, you encourage people to not use “pejorative terms” when talking to themselves or others.  What’s that about?

Self-talk is incredibly powerful.  The more you speak negatively to yourself, or others, the more you create a self-fulfilling prophecy. 

Unfortunately, some people who believe they "really" are “bad” or “broken,” cannot see this connection.  They’re not at fault for this; they just haven’t reached the point in their development where they can forgive themselves … and that’s just fine.  We’re all right where we’re supposed to be!

 

 

 

<span style="font-size: 10pt; color: black; font-family: 'Book

man Old Style'”>10. Describe yourself physically?

 

 

5’ 10” and 205 lbs.  Brown eyes, brown hair, err, salt and pepper is probably more accurate. 

Kinda handsome   

 

 

 

 

11. What would you do to me if I was there with you?  (I am female, lol)

 

 

Well, knowing its you, FORCE you to experience …

 

The ACCOMMODATOR!

 

 

12. What would I do to you? > >

 

Follow my instructions, silly!

 

 

13. How old are you?

 

 

103!

 

 

14. Where do you live?

 

 

Southern California

 

 

 

(Continued)