wtf is wrong with me?! Advice PLEASE!!!
Well, those of you who read my entry yesterday know how I felt. Now someone fucking explain to me why today I feel the complete opposite!!
Today I feel tired of Rob and when I think of him, there isn’t fondness, more the feeling of too much indulgence – the feeling you get when you’ve had too much of something. Like when you are completely in love with a good song but you’ve listened to it so many times that you don’t care for it anymore. Like one more listen will drive you bonkers.
Why?!! Why does this happen to me?! Does this mean that he is not "the one"?! Does this mean that I am wasting my time with him? Or can this feeling be fixed? Why do I go back and forth like this?! Someone please tell me why!
Did I only feel so fondly for him yesterday because I had heard about that other girl that wanted to take him home to her hotel after the funeral and I was pissed?
And why do I feel the need to continue the conversation with this chick to create more drama?!! ahhh!! someone please help!!
It is true there is too much of a good thing. All you need is some space and time. “Absence makes the heart grow fonder” And yes the fact that he is wanted will make you want him and appreciate what you have. It’s a good thing and quite normal.
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oh my. that is whats happenin with my boyfriend…kinda. he was at a funeral and met a girl too. of his bro and best friend. and he has been angry at me since i cheated on him 2 n a half years ago so he left me now. but ya since he left i felt understanding, than rage, than like i dont need this, and happy, but now i can step away and see the whole situation and imnot angry im just hurt it changes
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Since that was my first really nasty one since I increased my options for my readers, I’m not going to worry about it. I mean, I know how warm it is in here, and I am not at all worried about DFCS coming and messing with my children. After all, they are cared for, even if the boys have to share a room.
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ryn: thanks 🙂
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i had the exact same problem. I thought some time away would fix things, it just made me realize i didnt like him at all anymore. lol. I went from being so sure i wanted to marry him to I couldnt stand the sight of him. Ha. Damn girly emotions. My reasoning was if I’m second guessing if he’s “the one” then he’s obviously not. Im sure youll figure it out.
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