Lessons to be Learned

     You can’t know that the person you are with is "the one". You just can’t. No one has life figured out. You can’t plan life. As much as you want to, and you want to have everything follow in order, plans A-Z. But if you find love, someone who will be there for you through anything and everything, and accept you for exactly who you are. You shouldn’t have to change or be someone that you are not for the person you are with.

You should not have to be an idealized version of yourself to make yourself happy, you should be able to be all aspects of yourself. What other people think don’t matter. It is your core that you have to be true to. You can’t run away from that. Nothing but false happiness will ensue, and come crashing down on top of you.

You can’t put your own faults into another person; they are not you. You are unique. You can only guess at another person’s faults. Only they will be able to see their own faults.

There will always be questions, always wondering. How do you know if it’s right? You don’t. You can’t.

Is this a final decision for me? I’m still not sure…but I know how much I love him.