Frustrated & disappointed by a young working girl

Had visions of sex with a 1992 vintage beauty I’ve admired for a long while but her correspondence left me contemplating the potential effects of being so sought-after for your sexual company and favors.
 
I was respectful, thoughtful and appropriate when first inquiring online 2 days in advance to learn if perhaps she might be available during a window of time when I was going to be in her area. She responded to my message with asked-for geographical info to narrow the random-to-me area of her exact location, so clearly she got and (presumably) read my message.
 
In some fairness I wasn’t exactly certain I would make the hoped-for window after taking care of some (real) business elsewhere that evening. Indeed I told her that I "might" call at a certain point and that she should use the online message as additional confirmation that it was somebody from the net who already has some reputation with the local prostitutes.
 
Well I finished my appointments early and managed to get near to her general area at least 45 minutes before my given time guesstimate as to when my first contact might be. So I texted her just to let her know that I was still interested in seeing her, and that I was in the general area.
 
"Hi there, I messaged you about maybe seeing you this evening, and I wonder if you’re busy?"
 
She texted back: "were you thinking tonight?"
 
Then she added: "I’m not available. Something came up"
 
I wrote: "Hi, yes I’d been thinking ‘tonight’, and I did try to put the feelers out, with a message on the board, but OK (cue disappointment)"
 
(so at that point, everything would have been fine, considering the normal happenstance surrounding a human life)
 
Then came this response: "I’m sorry hun. I wasn’t expecting any visitors today and I’m already in bed".
 
I then added: "…but that’s why I even sent you a message through the online site a day or two ago, when I even mentioned this time (of this evening)"
 
She replied: "… and as you stated, you didn’t know whether you’d be calling or not. So I figured you wouldn’t because it is close to 9pm and I never take calls this late. Sorry hun. I hope we can reschedule. I just want to make sure I am up for it and I’m not at this time."
 
Then I concluded: "In all fairness, it was 8:10 when I first messaged tonight, and I think I may have even estimated for you in my original (email) message something like ‘8pm’ " (for my first call) (*actually I’d written "nine-ish" as a guesstimate)
 
Her response was: "Yeah I usually have Sunday’s off and I didn’t check my mail. I’ve been out with family today. Sorry hun."

 
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Now earlier in the day I’d been practically salivating merely for reading the last several of this young woman’s online reviews. I’d remembered some earlier reviews of sessions with her which weren’t all that stellar, yet I am attracted to her unique physical features and I can’t imagine not having a great time when sexually engaged with such an attractive young lass.
 
So I was building up my interest as day turned to evening while planning my approach to include getting everything done and still having time to see her.
 
I sure make allowances for when unavoidable things come up to alter plans, but this girl was given a very fair anticipation of how my opportunity to see her would unfold, and she just overlooked what had been very clear-seeming communication. That oversight rendered her completely unaware that I was likely to contact her when I did.
 
In my first email I mentioned Sunday evening, and gave an approximate time which evolved to be fairly accurate. Surely that would have been the time to respond and say that she usually has/takes Sundays off. No telling how she "wasn’t expecting any visitors today".
 
In addition, she stated late last evening that she "never takes calls this late" and today, suddenly, she has moved to a new hotel a short distance away from last night’s location (yet far, far away from me) and has had to advertise discounts in an attempt to drum-up lacking business, while mentioning that these discounts are "good until 11pm tonight".

I just don’t know what to think… I mean, I still know what I’m motivated to do, and that’s to wait and wait patiently until the stars align suitably for me to know sexual contact with her attractive form. The puzzle is trying to guess what makes her so challenged by clear communication. There is no way for me to know or experience what it might be like to ride the crest of the waves which represent male attraction to your petite and youthful body and your will for sharing it for a price. It is entirely possible that the unending attention long ago reduced the importance of specifics when interacting with any one individual.
 
Sadly I spent some small part of that day driving around and planning just what I might say in an online review of a session with that young woman. That meant I’d be deeply disappointed by the time I went to bed that evening, alone.
 
It is some small comfort just knowing that I might still, perhaps one day soon, get to experience the sexuality and the wholly desirable body of that attractive 20yo, and I guess my excitement over the mere idea can linger suitably until my time arrives.
 
Her photos assure a truly beautiful young woman even though the photo quality is unbefitting somebody with her artistic focal points. She’s very short, and definitely ‘Fun Size’, complete with a natural color combination which I tend to fall for quite often. I’m guessing her personality may let me down a little, as it seems that the business of prostitution is probably taking her for more of a ride than she is riding it (truly no puns intended there). Can’t tell for sure whether somebody is pimping her, but I do know that she doesn’t drive, and that she still manages to get around from hotel to hotel. Alas, there may be a family member willing to help out on the down low, but this young woman is likely such the source of great sexual demand that some lowly pimp may be putting her up to turning tricks.
 
To some relief it seems rather clear that she herself is the one corresponding with clients. Some of you would be quite surprised to see just how many attractive young women are represented online by what are too often barely literate male pimps. That despite a business wherein a woman’s greater sincerity and passive ways would better suit the environment and bring more business to those representing themselves online.
 
Aaaaaaaack – her anatomy appeals to me so much that it shall for now remain the driving factor in my choice of action or interest in the purchase of the woman’s sexual company.

This has been the mindset of your John.

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this is disgusting…as are you

I think you were being totally unreasonable in your communication and in even wanting sex with someone born in 1992! You have some serious issues

December 10, 2012

Jesus. What a shame some people (above) are so close-minded. I’d be fairly frustrated with this girl if I were you!

December 11, 2012

Oh random noter, how you make me laugh. Someone born in 1992 would be 20 this year. That’s hardly an unreasonable age.

You seem to attribute every characteristic of attractive women to the fact they are attractive. As if that alone shapes a person’s personality. Many, many factors could be in play, including communications with other providers who found you creepy, despite your very different experience of the situation. Or, maybe some 20-year-olds are flakes? Hmmm.

December 11, 2012

I think its sad what some 20 year olds have to do for money. Hopefully its for college..

December 11, 2012

I think it’s completely reasonable to be annoyed that she was “in bed” and couldn’t see you when you had already contacted her and given her a time frame that she believed would work. However, if she really could care less about the money and keeping her word….she may care less about you in bed and that would make for a huge let-down. As for some of the above noters…

December 11, 2012

..I don’t think they understand you are not talking about some random 20yr old girl you decided to Facebook chat with but a prostitute…one who has CHOSEN to get paid for acts of sex with strangers that are quite often older than her! People need to remember they should not judge, even if it is in our nature as humans.

December 12, 2012

RYN: LoL! I can sense your sarcasm in the “adventure” portion of your note. It definitely is nothing but a lot of flat land and crops heading down there. Nevermind Fargo flooding! Manitoba gets extremely flooded in the spring! Have you ever visited the wonderful flood zone of North America? There’s a lot of nothing to see 🙂

December 12, 2012

R. yes… story of my life: good enough for Wednesday and Sunday, not good enough for the weekend. Once again, a stripper’s main complaint. But I really don’t care. I think he did me a favor. I was going to go out of my way for him and he saved me time and money by being an idiot so… HIS LOSS!!!!

December 12, 2012

hahahaaha @ the first 2 notes on this entry. I love when ppl leave hating ass notes but don’t have the balls to sign them. LOL. And what’s even funnier… they keep reading. Fuckin losers!

December 13, 2012

Loving all your notes.

Eh, I’m 39 and dated a 20-21 year old man for almost a year and half now. It works.

December 14, 2012

I had to use the celsius/farenheit converter to understand what 9 farenheit was lol. But while it was -13 C, it actually felt closer to -30 C with the windchill. The temperature is never actually the temperature here. Always way colder once that wind kicks in. Prairie problems. -30 C (as i’m guessing you might know) is -22 F. According to the calculator 🙂 that is COLD.

Hey! We have 10 pin bowling too 😛 This bowling is just easier! Better for drunk bowling. What I laughed at, and still kind of am laughing at is the fact that you’ve been to a bowling alley in Fargo. Like of all places? (assuming you don’t live anywhere near North Dakota!) Double door – necessary in our neck of the woods. Flin Flon? For shame. So many other great things to see! LayLdy13th

I love how you still get hate notes, even though you’ve been on OD forrevverrr. And how frustrating! But speaking as a girl who was 20 not TOO long ago, I can tell you from experience that attractive 20 year olds tend to be flakey. Not alll of them but a good majority. For me it was because I was too nice and didn’t know how to say no to people, so I promised things I couldn’t do. :/

Ryn: lol hush!!!

December 16, 2012

there you go. i fixed it. Now you can read the Monster entry.

December 17, 2012

R: there was nothing random about his attack. He is my ex-roommates cousin and he and I got into a fight and he beat me up.

ryn: There is actually a very practical reason behind not having any toilet-shots in my DITLs anymore! When I got my new, much bigger camera, I found out it couldn’t balance on the edge of the tub anymore (which was at the perfect level for taking pictures on the pot). So there ya go! Haa. But anyway, you’re right, I am waaaay past due for a DITL. My next one will be my 100th DITL so I wanted to wait for a day where I could really devote time and energy on it! It must be special!

December 19, 2012

ryn – very interesting point 🙂

December 21, 2012

from a womans perspective, it seems pretty clear she just WASNT INTERESTED; maybe you creaped her out, or maybe she wasnt that motivated to meet you even though your communication was clear. she wasnt confused by your communication- she just didnt want to meet you and made some excuse. thats what it sounds like. Sounds like money didnt motivate her this time!