You want comparative prose written by Johns?
Just found these websites on the net at which "Johns" from elsewhere chronicle their dalliances with working girls. At first observation I am so stunned that I can’t drag myself to read much of their prose.
Guess I could use this as fuel to keep pressing on here after seeing the occasional (usually anonymous) notes which pretend to see meeeeeeeeee in a lesser light.
Anyway, read these two blogs if you can stand them for very long:
http://amsterdamprostitutelover.blogspot.com
http://laplayer.blogspot.com
From what little review I gave them, those are just a-bout what you might expect in the way of men writing about sex shared with women they paid to be their partners. Hopefully my approach is a bit more comfortable and less in-your-face than what you get with them.
Warning: there are many pictures that are NOT SAFE for work… or even after eating.
Just want some of you to have a fair sense of what you should typically expect when guys who visit prostitutes write about their experiences. I can’t even work my outlook on life around to a point where I could present such a ‘review’. Indeed those women are real people, and while they themselves put themselves in situations where their sexual company is for sale (and in places where that is perfectly legal, in one case), it still isn’t too tasteful to write about them with such callous disregard.
Of course some of you are observing the same about me… and perhaps it is you who gain the most from the contrast provided at the links above.
Your approach is most definitely more comfortable! That first one was very interesting but yeah, very much a guy just talking about the prostitutes he bangs. The pics are nice though.
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I couldn’t even bring myself to look. Your views are well enough for me as I appreciate your approach and don’t need a visual feel for the life style… eh, maybe when I get older. 🙂 Hope things are going well for you, you don’t write as much lately. Take care
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Those guys are pigs, obviously, but still less disturbing to me than you. They understand the transaction. You want it to be something it’s not, and want much more from a girl than her body for an hour — which is all she’s selling. You want them, and us, to affirm you are lovable in real life and that your touch is less abhorrent to them by virtue of your good intentions. It’s not. If you were honestly looking for a human connection, you would seek women in real life who are “in your league” (obese, handicapped?) and find a way to see beauty in them. Instead you pay attractive women to let you touch them, and are then dismayed(!) when they treat it as only transactional. You set yourself up for the same rejection from whores that you fear from women in real life because they don’t see “the real you.” Ironic, really.
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Ryn – It has “become clear” to several people around me that I need to be medicated.
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The guy from the Netherlands pissed me off I am guessing that is probably more what is like for most girls in the business there. I think that’s what it is that makes me mad. No gratitude from the customer. If you are an ass and they are legally protected why wouldn’t they be that way? I didn’t see anything really note work in the la blog. I noticed he was married and that terrified me, constant
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Constantly exposing his spouse to risk. Also thought it was weird how he was fixated on eyebrows and hair. Hair is obvious of course, eyebrows not so much, I think most men are looking at the total package not the tiny details, this is why I fix my eyebrows and get salon services. If I really thought a man was paying attention to all my smallest imperfections then I wouldn’t no matter if I was
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Perfect want to be with that person. Men aren’t that perfect. Most of them are hairy and have ball odor unless straight from the shower. There’s nothing beautiful about a man. Don’t feel like I should be judged into a Barbie doll standard.
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ryn: Oh I do have 4-20…I just worry when it gets low…lol..makes me nervous. haha
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xxxx
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Why are you always asking about my Sister?
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Dude… Who do you think my sister is!?!? I never write about her and she isn’t on OD or anything so what are you going on about??
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RYN: I just want to give you a big hug for that note. Thank you!
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Ryn – Women have been doing that for ages.
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I really do thank you for taking the time to leave a nice note. I find your diary very interesting and will be reading! in regards to my dad. we always used to fight when I was a little girl, we still live together to this day. though when we fight he yells and cusses at me and will refuse to talk to me for weeks on end. so am i the stereotypical stripper? who knows.
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Thats in regards to my thoughts. I wish I could just make myself stop thinking about all these worst case scenarios.
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ryn: My bad, you couldn’t see the entry before? You should be able to now lol.
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haha that’s funny 😛
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Hi and sorry for the silence. DD is gradually moving over to another site, so I migrated our diary there already, just so that it was the simplest of all my other diarioes to migrate. hope you’ll find it not too bad in Word Press: http://www.deardiary.net/alazar/ use the usual credentials. Hope all is well in your world and that your innovative idea caused interest it deserves. please update. Lana
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Alazar.
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Alazar 🙂
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the first website literally shocked me, yet I was fascinated.
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just to check if you are ok. Hope summer is bringing you warmth and makes you smile. Lana
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ryn: You? No words? that my friend, is a first!!!
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I don’t know, I always saw all of that segregation as being such a normal part of life. All of the other girls from families like mine that I’ve associated with were kept apart, also. “You’re not supposed to mix until after your of age”, we’ve all heard it again and again. Things are much different here though, here in America. Everyone mixes all of the time, everyone looks eachother in the eye
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and, call me crazy, but I don’t really see classes like I do back home. I see everyone all together, regardless of status, regardless of wealth. Its….. invigorating. I wish life were different and that I could be his, but at the same time I know your right- he doesn’t have the patience or the control to reign himself in around me, around someone so pathetically unversed in the ways of men.
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I’m sorry for interrupting what you were about to do. Apologies.
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