My Guy List

1. Big reader.

2. Likes diverse music and is at least open-minded to things not in his comfort zone of listening regulars.

3. Likes physical activities like swimming, skating, walking around, hiking, playing in the snow, etc.

4. Doesn’t have to have perfect pitch or anything, but has a good singing voice and can sing in tune.  (I admit, carryover from Mike, but it bugs the Hell outta me now when I hear someone mutilating a song.)

5. Open-minded.

6. Good debater and can think quickly on his feet.

7. Physically, should at least be able to take me on.

8. Similar religious beliefs.  I don’t want someone atheist, or of a vastly different religion than Christianity, though I’m not exactly a Christian.

9. Someone who is confident, but not to the point of arrogance.

10. Someone who has dreams, goals, and hopes for the future.

11. Someone who I can open up to.

12. Someone who knows how to get inside my head and either knows, or knows how to get me to tell them, what I’m feeling.

13. Someone who knows when to hug me and when to leave me alone.

14. Someone I can trust with everything.

15. Someone I want to trust with everything.

16. Someone I can have adventures with, be a kid around, be silly and stupid around.

17. Someone who wants to trust me with everything.

18. Someone I can go to with a problem, who won’t say they don’t know what to do to help me.

19. Someone who will come to me when they have a problem, instead of keeping it inside.

I was reading over random entries of mine, and I came across an entry written on August 5th, 2007 called "What’s Inside My Heart?" and it had this list in it.  All the things I could think of that I’d want in a guy.  I just looked over it, and while I admit, Drew does encompass some of these qualities, Denny fulfills every single one. 

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August 25, 2011

That’s pretty cool. 🙂