I’m in TROUBLE . . .
God, I’m in trouble . . .
Okay, so I’m checking out people’s diaries, right? And I decide to check out Melanie’s. She usually has something new up, even if it is only a new entry of how much she misses Kenny, and how she can’t wait to see him, yada, yada, yada. So, I’m reading over the new one, and she mostly used pronouns. “He,” “his,” like that. And I’m sitting there, thinking, “Oh, boy . . .” Because I could be saying a lot of the EXACT SAME THINGS about JASON!!!!! I only get to see him once a week, because of how his classes go, and he’s usually home on the weekends.
I don’t know what to do. And I can’t think baout it anymore tonight, because I need to get sleep. Plus, I’m on battery power with my laptop.
Just . . . Argh. I don’t know what to do . . .
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Ryn: He could be scared. It is a possibility. Developing an attraction for a friend can be a tricky situation. He could be scared that if you two do try a relationship and things don’t work out, that the friendship will take a hit too. The friendship could be too valuable to him to want to take the risk of losing it. It doesn’t mean that it would happen, but it still could mean that he has the [*~Advice~*]
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fear. It could be why he likes acting all close to you… the hugging, the talking, etc. He might want to get as close as he can but without making it official, so that he still avoids that same risk. It’s great that you two feel so comfortable with each other. That’s definitely an important factor needed in a relationship. but for a relationship to work, it takes both people to be able to share [*~Advice~*]
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their loving feelings for each other. It most likely won’t work with one holding back their feelings, whatever they happen to be. Try asking him what his idea of his perfect girl would be. See if his answer contains descriptions that resemble you a lot. If it does, it’s a good chance that he’s hiding his passion for you and maybe just isn’t ready yet to tell you the truth. He might just need more [*~Advice~*]
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time to figure out what he really wants. Try not to rush into figuring out exactly where this friendship will lead. Just go with the flow. And if he eventually comes clear that he wants more than a friendship, it’ll have been worth the wait. Until then, stop stressing and enjoy the wonderful bond you two already have, a bond that seems exceptional. š [*~Advice~*]
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I don’t really understand this entry. R u saying that u could be talking about the same guy? Or just that ur situations r similar? RYN: Nah i’m not really a beatles fan š [**Luce**]
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Hm. This sounds so similar to “Mike and I are just really good friends. We’ll never go out.” Hehehe. My advice is just let things happen. Don’t force anything. But don’t hide true feelings either. [Jilliebean]
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thanx alot, my email is the_sarg@yahoo.com any help would really be appreciated [lost=one]