Somethin’ stupid like I don’t love you

My best friend is on the verge of doing something incredibly stupid. Ok, let me explain.

She told me yesterday that she is getting married to this guy she calls C-Mo on April 7th or 8th. This is stupid for several reasons. The first; she just finished screwing C-Mo’s brother "Dude" in her van across the street from my house, not five days ago. All the while, since her breakup with her last long-term boyfriend, she’s been saying things like, "I’m gonna enjoy being single" and "I don’t have to explain myself to anybody". What the fuck?!

C-Mo is such a stupid name, too, but I guess that’s beside the point. Stacy’s already started calling herself by his last name. WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE?!

Her son Michael, my older godson, is 17 and will graduate High School in May. His plans are to graduate, then move down to his grandparents’ house near Austin. Stacy’s gonna do this fool thing JUST BEFORE her son graduates?! What if it throws his plans off? Why doesn’t anyone ever consider their goddamned childrens’ needs first anymore?!!!!!!!

I just don’t know what to do. I’m so sick about this that I feel like telling Stacy not to talk to me anymore until she comes to her senses. But she won’t come to her senses. She’s done this before, with one divorce behind her. She SAID my opinion matters, but she won’t listen to it. I know this is a mistake, but I guess she can learn it the hard way.

BTW, she met C-Mo at his current residence…a state school, where he’s locked up for a violent act. Great example for our boys, eh?

sedated.love

March 20, 2011

wow. not very smart…that’d make me mad too! my best friend is with a guy that i hate.. he doesnt always treat her the best.. it was basically his fault she got an abortion. i kinda know how you feel.. it sucks knowing we cant do anything about it, huh?? i hope she comes to her senses sooner than later… <3

Persona

March 23, 2011

wow. That is quite possibly, the worst idea i’ve ever heard. Was she dropped on her head multiple times as a child by chance? (i’m sorry if i’m being insulting here but come on, she needs to get her act together).

I so know how you feel my best friend is 41 and she married a 27 year old guy that she barely knows and brought him to america, now he is leaving for california and we really don’t know what he’s going to be doing he says he’s going to learn to drive an 18 wheeler but he barely speaks english. I think he’s going to vanish on her. I’m just disgusted with the whole situation.