Vasectomy

Why?

Why would a man have to get a vasectomy?

I know that if you are older like 45 I understand..

But baby you are only 35..

I really like this man a lot, and I do mean a lot a lot a lot…

He is so sweet and just some yummy.. lol!!

I know I know i sound crazy:P but i really like him and I see big plans for us, but he is having a vasectomy tomorrow, now all of this was planned before he met me and last night he told me that it is happening thursday…

I do know that this is not my decision that it is his, but I feel like if he plans on me having a future with him, and he has brought that up, shouldn’t he reconsider?

I all ready have a baby… Who I love with everything.. and he has 2 kids.. But I always thought that one day I would have at least one more you know… I am being selfish?

Should I just go on and let it go.. He is the one i am falling in love with not is genitles….

So I need some help… Tell what you guys think I need someones advice!!

Christine Elizabeth

scrpbookr

March 3, 2010

random here but I think you need to speak up…. kindly….

Chronic Ecstasy

I think you need to tell him how you feel. If you don’t, you will wind up regretting it and your feelings may balloon out of control when it’s already too late. There’s nothing to say that he can’t have a vasectomy later when you’ve both decided that you don’t want kids. What’s the rush?

I think this is very difficult. I think you just need to tell him exactly what you’re thinking. There is nothing else that can be done, and you will have to gage his reaction from there. x