drinking is stupid
it will get you no where.
This last week has been a strange one. Well, more tumultuous than anything else.
I know something went on last weekend other than fighting but I dont remember what it was. Oh I remember, we went down to Marleys house. I wasnt gonna go because I was sick, but they were going to be doing shrooms so Tosh really wanted me to go. I was feeling ok, so I went. Omg! I didnt do them, I have no interest in them, but to watch other people on them was like the funniest thing Ive ever seen. Ive never seen anyone trip, it just was never my thing or something that my crowd did. There were two other guys with them doing them and Marleys wife and I just watched. Marley ended up being really quiet and just went to bed. Tosh believes that he had a bad trip and just needed to be away from everyone, but Marley would never admit that.
The one dude kept talking about Avatar. I guess hed just seen the movie and the people in the neighbors yard had blue shirts on. It was kinda freakin him out, lmfao.
Needless to say a good time was had by all. I laughed so much; everyone was in a good mood. Of course I drove us home; Tosh was too messed up to do it. We talked on the way home and I guess shrooms dont really mess with your mental capacity; they just make things pretty and you silly. It wasnt what I expected, I mean really, I thought that he was going to do them and I was gonna be like I cant talk to you anymore. It just wasnt like that though, he was actually sweet. Introduced me to the other guys as his girlfriend and was talking sweet on the way home. He was happy that I went with him and happy to be out and about with me on such a beautiful nite. Really, that wasnt the shrooms talking, it was beautiful. Lol.
Sometimes I dont think that hes very sensitive and stuff, but then he always seems to come up with something to say or do that changes my mind. Like the karate chop thing. Lol, the other day he tells me theyre love taps and forgets about doing it for 2 weeks. So, once he remembered, I was massively chopped. I keep trying to tell him instead of chopping me, he should just hug me. Hugs are better than chops. Lol, he says at least he shows he cares about me and isnt cold. He says some guys dont even show that they care, which is totally true. Ive just never dated someone who wasnt really touchy feely. Its something new for me. But really, when he does hug me or kiss me or just touch me for no reason it means all the more because hes not doing it all the time. He has been a lot more apt to throw out the I love yous lately though.
Anywhore, things were pretty much ok most of the week. Tosh and I didnt do much of anything. Just hung out and stuff. Then Thursday nite Cody and Drunkin got into it big time. Tosh and I were in my room listening to it all. Cody was being a dick and Drunkin was, well drunk. Go figure. At some point it became physical. I refused to go upstairs and get involved. They didnt punch each other, but I could hear them wrestling around. So, Drunkin called the police and Cody sat and waited for them to show up. I dont think that he thought they were going to make him leave. *shrug* dumbass. So the police show up and just make Cody leave.
It was a tense nite and I kept waiting for my uncle to come down or something. But no, Tosh had to pee so I had to go upstairs with him and I got trapped in the living room for half an hour while my uncle got teary eyed then shitty and then just stupid. I came down and Tosh was sitting here with the TV on mute apologizing to me for making me go upstairs. Lol. its not that big of a deal.
Friday I stayed at my aunts house. I needed a nite away and didnt want to be around my uncle. Saturday Tosh came and got me, it was raining and yucky so we just hung out and watched tv and played PS3.
Again my uncle got drunk. Today was a boring day. Tosh wasnt having a good day, he said its because he misses me and hates being away from me. So he did come over for a bit. I wanted him to stay, but hed stayed last nite and I dont need shit from my uncle again. Sundays just arent Sundays without Tosh here. I love this man. Im in love with this man. I hope that my actions and words show him just how much.
Well, from what you describe I don’t think that’s even in question. But that’s just me…heh.
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I agree with Tigerhawk… I think he knows. I also think you’re in a very negative environment, and I wish I knew how to help you get out of it. 🙁 It hurts to not be able to help you, but I don’t know what I could possibly do… unless I won the lottery and gave you some of the winnings… but we don’t have a lottery here. 🙁 I send you *HUGS* and lots of aloha.
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Awwww, isn’t it great 🙂
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