I am asking for serious respose, Please?

For me, it is the give and take. If my soul isn’t be fed as much as I feed my friend’s soul (or vice versa), then to me, it is not a friendship. Lifetime friends are few and far between. It happens when each party thinks only good of the other and both keep up the communication.

To me, friends just develop. Each thing that me and a friend share becomes a bond between us. I have had alot of friends come and go in my life, for sure, because we didnt share enough together (whether that was talking or doing something together) to bond us for life. My dear friends, some I have had for over 30 years, have been people who shared with me and let me share with them. It cant be one-sided. I have 3 friends that I consider to be as close to me as a sister ever could because we are bonded in what we have shared together, good and bad things. The reason we get so close to OD friends is because we bare our souls to them in our entries….then we turn around and read all about their lives. The ones that dont really write much about their feelings are the ones that I never get really close with. But every entry where someone is telling me about their lives and what they are feeling, bonds me closer to them. I have no idea if this long drawn out note is what you were looking for at all, though. lol