I can’t understand…(cont)

I mentioned the idea of my sister moving in here to Matt and he doesn’t think it’s a good idea. I wonder…but the more I think about it the more something is telling me that that it is the right thing to do. No one sees it my way though…everyone around me is telling me that it will come between me and Matt and honestly in a way it already has. He’s saying no and I’m saying yes. He has good points though. We’re stressed out enough as it is.
My sister has this attitude that she can make it on her own. She was always saying that the day she turned 16 she was moving out…if anyone didn’t like it, she was going to be emancipated or whatever. I don’t know if that’s really possible, but the point is, there’s no way she’d make it on her own. She seems to think it is so easy. I know from experience that it’s not all that great…I mean actually we’re living on two incomes and there are still some rough times…since Matt got his raise it’s not that bad, but still. I think her plan then was to move into her friends house…well she’s been evicted and has like a week to get out. She has nowhere to go…she has no car…so she’ll have no job. What’s she going to do. I mean she has this friend who’s mom will sell her car to her for like $100…well okay…say she were to come up with the money..she’s not thinking about insurance..gas…then if she were to rent a place…(who’s gonna rent to a 16 year old) she’s not thinking about utilities..food..all that stuff. It’s impossible on a minimum wage ($5.15/hour)income.
There’s no explaining this to her..she’s so hard headed…she’s like talking to a brick wall. That’s what makes me want to just tell her that she wanted to be on her own so now’s her chance. She mentioned that she wanted to just stay here until she had a job, car, and til she could get a place of her ‘own’. I told her she’d have a job if she lived her..no doubt about it. I’m hoping she tried really hard a found a ride to work today. If she did today then I can take her tomorrow….hopefully she wouldn’t have to work this weekend and I could take her Monday…hopefully by then she’d have something figured out with a car..or worked out with my dad..which I doubt because my dad is still pissed.
I think my sisters biggest problem is her boyfriend. He’s scum. I hate him…my mom doesn’t like him…and come to find out my dad doesn’t either. Believe me..he’s had his chance too. BUT he’s on probation..was when they first started dating..the probation has been violated..blah blah blah…he’s been charged with breaking and entering. He smokes, drinks, he’s not in school, he’s a loser. I dunno maybe I’m just rude. If he were a decent guy he would have known that him driving the pickup was a bad idea and refused to do it. I mean my dad is more pissed at him that my sister it seems. I want to say it’s not his fault, but he should have known better. I didn’t think my dad had a problem with him, because back in the day when my mom was complaining about him my dad was being his pig headed self and went off on how he doesn’t know him and he’s not going to judge him…well I guess he found out the hard way. He was ready to kill him I swear. I was surprised when he told me that my sister shouldn’t be hauling him around anwyays because he dosen’t like him and what not.
The weirdest thing is I swear they hate eachother (my sister and her boyfriend)..they’re just way rude to eachother..ALL the time.
When it comes right down to it..I believe my sister has some major psychological problems that no one is willing to deal with…that’s a whole other entry…so be ready for more!