Weekend etc

Hey folks,

Had a really good weekend actually! After my strop on Thursday night I sulked on Friday and Mike came home at Friday lunchtime to work from home and pacify me! It worked…especially as he had fab news….he’s been headhunted by an advertising agency in the city and offered a £10,000 payrise!!

£10,000!!!!!

Ker-chiiiiiiing! Pounds signs have appeared in my eyes!! We’ll have an extra £500 a month which will be VERY helpful with me still on maternity leave!

WOOHOOO!

We had a lovely Friday night snuggled up on the sofa with a glass of wine, watching TV. We also *whispers* did the deed (2nd time since I gave birth) and it was MUCH better this time round…..it stung like hell the first time. So that made me cheery. Things are returning to normal.

We went to to Bristol on Saturday and Mike and I had another mega argument. I went off with 3 of my girly mates for a bridesmaid dress fitting-I’m a bridesmaid for my friend Sarah in June (memo to self: lose excess weight before then, esp. tyre round middle) and Mike was left looking after William with the boys (the girl’s boyfriends). When we got back to the house after the fitting the boys were nowhere to be seen. Turns out they had taken William for a walk in the park. Mike was carrying him in the sling on his front, William facing outwards. Fine…except when they got back I realised William wasn’t wearing a coat or a hat. I was FURIOUS. It was chilly and windy outside and his little face, hands and feet were freezing. He was pale and looked shellshocked. I flipped and we had a big row. Mike is a great dad but he just doesn’t think sometimes.

We’ve had more arguments since William was born than in the whole 7 years we’ve been together. It’s ridiculous. I think we really to spend some quality time together…..tomorrow night is the night! My mum and dad are babysitting and we’re going to Windsor for a meal. Somewhere romantic. I can’t WAIT-I’m going to stuff myself silly!- but I feel a bit nervous about leaving him. I know he’ll be absolutely fine but still…..

Ugh. I have to do some washing up. Fun! See you later folks!

lots of love happycookie and William xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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October 23, 2006

J sent Kathryn to my mom’s on Friday without a coat or anything O_O She had a long sleeve thin cotton jacket on that was part of an outfit but nowhere near warm enough! DOH! MEN!!

mark is just the opposite..when its cold he makes sure i bring extra coats and blankets just in case…hes so funny!

October 23, 2006

yay 4 payrise! wooo! :o) that’s one HAPPYcookie! :o) Ed’s the opposite – he insists on a thousand blankets when we go out and puts way too many on at night! It’s a shame you’re arguing – the added stress is sucky I know. Hope you enjoy your couple time xxx

October 23, 2006

Yay for being headhunted!! That’s ace news for Mike (and you!). Enjoy your meal out, William’s going to be absolutely fine. Promise me you will go out and WON’T ring home. They’ll call if they need you. 🙂

October 23, 2006

Awesome for the pay raise!

October 24, 2006

Awww…enjoy your evening of baby-freeness!!! You do need time together, as just the two of you…You will apprectiate it so much more now!!! Oh and excellent news on the payrise…That is such good news!!!

October 24, 2006

Hunny try not to worry, this is totally normal. Me and Steve were on the verge of breaking up when the boys came home. It was so stressful and he just didnt have a clue which annoyed me sooooo much. We talked about it and after about 3 weeks we were fine 🙂 Make sure you and Mike have regular couple time. Im glad youre having that now but make it a regular thing. Weekly if poss. It will help loadstrust me 🙂 WOOP for the payrise. That is absolutely wonderful so congrats! Take care and enjoy the meal. Lots of love xxxxxxx

October 24, 2006

the thing about having kids is no one talks out the best way to raise them before they have them , so there are tons of fights about it later