Move coming along….
Well I am going to town tomorrow to work on cleaning and organizing the apartment for the move.
Saturday we are supposed to move all the furniture and stuff. I can’t wait to get all the stuff here and we can start the process of organizing and putting all our stuff in here. The house still has all of N’s parent’s stuff in it. We are going to put our bed upstairs and their bed in the spare room because I like our bed better. N likes their bed but it is HOT. Something about the memory foam makes even the cooling topper we have not seem to help. It’s freaking hot. Of course it could have to do with having 2 and sometimes 3 dogs in the bed also lol
I have to take some of their stuff off the walls so we can put up our own….of course we don’t really have anything. I keep trying to get N to paint me something but he hasn’t had the time to do anything. I also need to setup an art studio area for him. I will just put it on the long list of things to do.
I told him I want to get the board for the bathroom floor soon. Of course I really need him to fix the toilet and put it back on floor level before we lay the floor boards down…when the hell he is going to have time to do that, I have yet to figure out.
His boss said things should calm down after memorial day. Don’t get me wrong, I appreciate the paycheck – takes some of the pressure off of me. And I told him when i met him, I would never complain about him working…but I miss having time with him. I am stuck at home all day…..I am working when he gets home. He tries to leave me a long but I follow him just running my mouth – cause I haven’t had anyone to talk to all day lol.
So once the move is done, I am calling to setup the classes for us to become foster parents. I need to ask him if he wants to get married first. If his parents are going to sell us the house, I would like to be married when we get it. I don’t want to have a gazillion things going on when we decide to foster. I would like to get some things organized..and of course we have to have a room cleaned out for the kid to sleep in.
Things are crazy….stress level has been high which has led to more fights then I like to have but none of them have been that bad…Between the hours of working, hours of driving and being sick, N hasn’t had a good time lately. Can’t wait till everything calms the f down
ryn if i had my own property, i dont’ think i’d put a woman’s name on it, except maybe my mom. I’m willing to lose a house to my mom, but a gf? hell no. wife? nope. doesn’t matter, i want control of the property for myself. she can live there, but she wont’ have ownership. i hope when the time comes i don’t back down to guilt tripping and keep my senses
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good luck i read a thing, top five regrets of people dying in palliative care. the top one was wishing they’d been who they were, not what others expected them to be. in the top five, mostly for males, was wishing they hadn’t worked so much, and spent time with their wives and kids and friends and stuff. but if you’re the breadwinner in the house, you kinda have to – and most of the guys werefrom a time when the man was expected to be the breadwinner. kinda sad
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ryn ugh. remind me not to get married
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