Is It Friday Yet???

I very rarely have slow weeks, but for some reason it seems like time is going so slow!!!  I’m even staying pretty busy for the most part.  I’ve been doing my best to stay focused on my work so that I don’t end up trying to dig myself out of an endless pit of cases again before the end of the month.  (That was a really long sentence.)  LOL

Anywho… quick update.

Jacob’s mom called him on Sunday and apologized for making this whole situation with Hannah more dramatic than what it needs to be.  I’m still not happy with her though considering that I know she was talking smack about my dress.  She just doesn’t know that I know that bit of information.  And as far as Hannah being in the wedding… I think she still has it in the back of her mind that she wants Hannah to be a bridesmaid.  Well guess what!!  I’m pretty much, for the most part, deadset against it.

Jacob is still trying to get her to compromise when it comes to Hannah being IN the wedding.  I told Jacob that we would just give her money back that she paid for the bridesmaid dress, and then she can take Hannah and find another dress.  Something that Hannah would be more comfortable in anyway.  I’ll still make Hannah a bouquet, and when it comes time for the wedding, she will just walk in with her mom.  That way she won’t have to stand in front of a bunch of people, and she can just relax.

We’ll see how it will go over.  Mary said that she will tell us on Thursday if she thinks it will be safe enough for Hannah to even take the trip to Nebraska for the wedding.

One other thing that bothers me about all this stupid drama was the fact that when she was saying she wasn’t going to go to the wedding at all since Hannah wasn’t going to be in it… she wasn’t taking into consideration that the wedding isn’t about Hannah being a bridesmaid (healthy or sick)…. it’s about the fact that her SON is getting MARRIED!!!  Hello???? *mumbling "stupid bitch"*

So as far as I’m concerned Andrea is in the wedding.  Hannah may be feeling all fine and dandy on Thursday, but she is entirely too unpredictable for me to feel comfortable putting her in as a bridesmaid. (I’m sure you are all tired of hearing about this.)  Mary will just have to compromise because I’m not going to wait until the last minute to find out for sure if she is going to be well enough to make it.

I have 4 more bouquets left to make.  I have 2 bridesmaid bouquets finished, and about half of my bouquet finished.  Since I have to make an extra bouquet for Hannah, now have 3 bridesmaid bouquets left to make and then the other half of mine which is basically the size of another bridesmaid bouquet.  So total I have 4 bouquets to make, and 8 bouteniers,  AND extra stems to put with corsages.

We are down to 31 days left before the wedding.  Excuse me while I go throw up.  LOL

I have all the tux measurements in except for Clint.  I will hopefully have his by this week sometime.  I talked to the formal wear store, and they said that I still have plenty of time to get them in… but the goal is to have them in by Friday.

I made Jacob get his ass out of bed super early this morning so that I could drop him off at the DMV.  He seemed to have lost his ID last month, so we had to get a replacement ID for him.  Keep your fingers crossed that it comes in before it is time for us to leave at the end of the month.  Not only would it cause problems with us trying to fly to Nebraska, but we wouldn’t be able to get our marriage license once we got to Nebraska.  I just hope that they send it no later than a couple of weeks from now.  Somebody told him that they received their replacement within one week.  Others have told him 2-4 weeks.  OMG!!!  Why now??  LOL

I’m going to be paying for the photographer tomorrow probably.  YAY for finally getting that out of the way.  Once that is done we will be makeing payments on wedding bands, tickets, and final dress payments.  Deep breaths.  It’s almost over.  =)

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June 9, 2006

wow, less than a month left! lol Did you guys already to the blood test in Ne.? Or do they even still do that? I hope his ID comes in on time. I’m so excited for you guys!

X
June 16, 2006

I’m with you on the bridesmaids thing… It’s kinda in the name…. *Brides* maids. So I think it wouldn’t be unreasonable to expect the bride herself to pick the girls closest to her! 🙁 *hug*