End of Week Update

Well I guess the fact that this week is over is one of the very few good things that happened this week.  Let me tell you… this whole wedding thing is turning into more drama than what it’s worth.  That’s what it seems like anyway.

So we still need to get ahold of Jacob’s cousin to tell him that he is back in the wedding again.  Keep your fingers crossed that that goes much more smoothly then everything else that has been going on.  I need to get measurements from two more people hopefully by the end of this weekend.

Jacob’s mom is saying right now that she is not going to go to the wedding at all now.  She is pissed off that Jacob and I finally put our foot down about having Hannah in the wedding.  After what happened the other day though, I would be an idiot not to make this decision.  Sooo… here’s a quick run down of what happened.

On Wednesday night, I glanced at my cell phone and saw that there was a voicemail on my phone.  So I call to listen to the message only to hear Hannah crying all crazy like, talking about please come get her, he’s trying to kill me.  WTF!!!  So I hand the phone to Jacob and tell him to listen to the message… to which he responds… WTF!!!

At that point he calls his mom to find out what the hell is going on now.  His mom then proceeds to tell him that Hanah dinged the fuck out AGAIN.  One of the dogs that just had puppies was all dehydrated and stuff I guess and was shaking really bad.  Hannah thought that the dog was dying, and proceeds to call the police.  She tells the police that the dog is dying and that Ray (step-dad) is trying to kill her and the dog!!!  WTF!!!!  Where the hell does she come up with this shit??

So THEN the cops swarm in on the house and surround the house.  I guess there was like 5 cop cars, a fire truck, and an ambulance at the house.  So Mary (mom) who wasn’t home when this all started, comes home to see her house surrounded.  She then has to talk her way into the house because they weren’t going to let her anywhere near the house at this point.  She finally is able to convince the cops that Hannah is sick and completely out of it right now.

After all this, I guess was when Hannah had called my phone and left the crazy-ass message about Ray trying to kill her.  BUT that wasn’t the end of it.  She called the cops AGAIN and told them AGAIN that Ray was trying to kill her and that he was a wanted BANK ROBBER!!!  WTF WTF WTF!!!!  It is really hard to not think in the back of my mind that the girl is a complete lunatic.  If I didn’t know better than to think that, I would believe it was true.

Well after Jacob got of the phone with his mom, I didn’t really say anything to him right away.  I knew it wasn’t the time right then to bring it up.  But a little while later, I mentioned that there really wasn’t anyway that Hannah was going to be a bridesmaid in the wedding.  At this point, we did end up having a bit of an argument due to the fact that Jacob thinks the only thing I care about is the wedding.  I was finally able to explain to him that yeah I do care about the wedding, BUT it really doesn’t make sense to put Hannah in a position where she can flip out because she has over a hundred people that she doesn’t know staring at her.

He did agree that it would be better to place her in another role that wouldn’t be quite as stressful as standing in front of a church full of strangers.  If she is this paranoid and out of it around people that she DOES know, I could only imagine what she would be like in front of people that she DOESN’T know.  I would be an idiot to think that it is going ot be okay and have her up there anyway.  I’m just not going to take that chance.

Jacob’s mom doesn’t want to see it from out perspective though.  She is insisting that we are embarrassed of Hannah, and that is why we don’t want her up there.  Well I’m not going to lie… WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND WOULD KNOWINGLY WANT TO HAVE SOMEBODY IN THERE WEDDING THAT IS KNOWN TO FLIP OUT AT ANY GIVEN MOMENT???  She is so unpredictable at this point.  Why take that chance?  Why not compromise??  She can do something else!!!  Something that if she decided to walk away from it, it wouldn’t be that big of a deal.  But no… that would be LOGICAL!!!  Why the fuck go the safe route on this one?  It’s only thousands of dollars spent on one day.

Ohhhhh…. and get this…. Mary is ALSO saying that she doesn’t think that she can even fly Hannah OUT to Nebraska ANYWAY.  Because IF something would happen on the plane, then they would have to have an emergency landing.  Well GOOD GRIEF woman!!!  If you can’t even fly her out there, then why the fuck are you bitching about her not being in the wedding???  WTF is wrong with this picture???

AANNNNDDD… GET THIS… Shawn (future sister-in-law) calls me and tells me all this about Mary not going to the wedding and blah blah blah.  She also mentions something about Mary talking SHIT about MY WEDDING DRESS!!!  WTF kinda shit is THAT???  How fucking DARE you talk shit about my DRESS!!!!  She said something about how she just can’t understand WHY my dress has red on it.  Well fuck you!!!!

At this point, I refuse to talk to Jacob’s mom until I get some apologies.  I am NOT the selfish one here.  I am more than willing to compromise with the whole situation with Hannah.  But don’t play a fucking guilt trip with me about not coming to the wedding if we don’t have Hannah in the wedding.  I’m sorry… but I just don’t play those games.

I talked to Jacob this afternoon and told him that his mom is saying that she isn’t going to the wedding now.  He is to the point where he doesn’t care anymore.  He said, "Oh well.  We’ll get married without her."   I hope he continues to have this attitude and doesn’t end up getting pulled into the guilt trip that she is trying to pull now.

Up until now, I have for the most part always gotten along with Mary.  I can see, though, that we may have some differences ahead of us.

Well… my weekend is now starting.  We have money that we are going to make payments on our wedding bands with today.  I need to get my engagement ring serviced this weekend too.  I think we are going to a movie tonight.  All I know is I need to do SOMETHING that is going to calm me down and get me relaxed.  Something that will keep my mind off of all this DRAMA.  I’m just happy that everything else is still going smoothly.  Money is rolling in… things are getting payed for.  We are all good.  Deep breaths.  It’s almost over.  =)

Hope everyone has a great weekend!!!  Thanks for listening to my crazy drama filled entry.

Laters,
JamieLynn  =)