Thwarted
Woke up, did yoga, made green tea, played a game for a bit, planned to hang out with my friend this afternoon. Trying so hard to have a great day. Then I see that three of my best friends are at Ren Faire today without me. With Chris. I’d asked two of them to hang out this weekend, and both said they were busy Sunday, but didn’t say why. I know I shouldn’t feel so betrayed, they’re his friends too…but I can’t help it. None of them have seen me since he broke up with me. Why?
it’s tough being that friend… feeling like you have to choose between girl and guy. i’m sorry. i’d go with you.
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I will never understand those that feel they have to pick a side when there is no side to pick. It’s easy enough to be friends with both people. When my mom died, a bunch of people that were in both of my mom and dad’s lives, dropped off the face of the planet. One of my moms closest friends had dad and I over for supper after my mom died and my dad over heard her say “OK I’ve done my part,” and she never contacted my dad again. It was horrifying. Same with a bunch of their mutual friends. The only ones that have stayed in touch was my moms closest friend and her husband. They are like family to us and whenever they come to Saskatchewan (they live out in BC) they always make time to see my dad. Anyway I don’t know why people do this. I don’t understand your friends at all. Honestly I’d probably just ask them. You’ve got nothing to lose at this point, especially if they are immature enough to feel they need to pick a side.
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