Heartbroken

We broke up last night.

He doesn’t see long term potential, and it’s been causing him to be distance.

I couldn’t sleep. Inviting him over to cook him dinner and see him after a long week apart, trying to tell him I’m falling in love with him…and I asked him what was wrong first.

Can’t stop crying.

He was really sweet, but he just stayed on my bed, hugging me and leaning in like he was going to kiss me, telling me we should hang out this weekend and be best friends and…I was dying inside.

This isn’t what I want. I want to be with him. I think he is wrong.

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August 1, 2013

saw you on the front page. don’t give him what he wants, which is to “be friends”. you’ll hate yourself for it if you pretend that he didn’t just break your heart. been there, done that, not worth it. the proper response is “**** off, you’ve really hurt me, and i need some time away from you. you don’t get to hurt me and then want to be friends.” if you’re meant to have any sort of relationship, it’ll grow from a clean place after you both have had some distance. take care of yourself. it’s such a horrible place to be, i know. *~

I’m so sorry. Sounds like he just wasn’t ready to commit. I do hope you don’t do the “friends” thing. You have real feelings way beyond friendship and friendship isn’t something you two are capable of right now. There’s too much other stuff that would make friendship impossible. I wish things could have been different with him. He sounded like such a wonderful guy. He probably still is.If it’s not there for him though, it just isn’t, nothing you or him can do about it 🙁

*hugs* So sorry sweetie. I wish I had the right words to help with the tears. 🙁