Update

I deleted the request. I talked to my best friend about what she did in an incredibly similar situation, and she advised me to just block it and let it die. That she never regretted not yelling and screaming and beating the crap out of him when her version called her.

I also talked to Chris. Well, texted. I was so up in the air, I just asked him for his stance on emotional baggage. Is he a "the past is the past, let’s leave it there" or a "I’d like to know what could be relevant to now." kind of guy. He said he’d probably like to know, especially if it can sometimes explain my reactions to certain things. We are going to sit down in person when I am back from Connecticut. Going to go meet the niece! Leaving in like three hours for the weekend! Whoot.

I’ll write more later.