**New Development** Updated

 So…I don’t have a boyfriend or anything…but I totally just got kissed. He has been my friend for about three years. Wasn’t looking for this but we shall see.

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So…his name is Andy. Ironically we have a bunch of the same friends, as he went to high school with most of my theatre friends. We also went to Community College together, and he lives like 10 minutes from me, and goes to Church at the end of my street. But we didn’t meet until we both started at NIU three and a half years ago. Then we played "It’s a Small World" and became great friends. At graduation time (for him) we all went to dinner after our portfolio reviews and he admitted he’d liked me for a while, but there’d been other people for both of us, and we are such good friends. Well lately we’ve been hanging out more, going to concerts, going to dinner, and Sunday we walked around a park with his dog for hours (See Profile Picture on Facebook!). Then he wanted to do dinner on Monday, so we ate, walked to the book store in an attempt to get Jesus-ed…it’s happened to us there before. It was a blast. Then we drove to my apartment, hung out with Cara’s dog Charlie…and when I hugged him goodbye he kissed me. Very sweetly.

With everything so up in the air about my future, I’m kinda not looking to date. I’m also not sure if that’s there between us enough to be something serious. He’s also super skinny…which isn’t a no go, but is just something I notice I’m less attracted to. He is so sweet though. Too sweet? I feel like I could kinda destroy him. But…it’s nice having someone to just have great days with.

Omg…It’s almost November…which means Graduation, Holidays, Food!!

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Wouldn’t it be nice to date someone that would be good to you for a change? Too nice isn’t a bad thing.

October 26, 2012

I love this! I am in a similar situation as you, but I have not known the guy as long. Don’t write him off… it could be a good thing. Sweet guys are a good thing. I love the holiday season too! it is so exciting. time with family. <3 it