Astrological summary of me! (part 2)

  Love & Sex

Ascendant in Sagittarius

 

 

For you, love is an opportunity for endless sport, mirth and enjoyment, to be taken in generous helpings and with gusto.  [At first I like omg it’s called me out as a complete slut in the first sentence lol!  But then wait, love is okay, so that’s sweet].

 

 

It is not the method or technique of loving that turns you on as much as the sheer joy of mutual participation with your partner.

 

 

Remember, you probably have much more stamina than most, so you may inadvertently wear your partner out with your abundant energy.[wooooo] Find out just what your lover likes and dislikes, so that you do not stray into forbidden territory unintentionally.  [ummm okay then!]

 

 

Sun in Sagittarius

 

 

It is very important for you to become personally involved with a lover. For you, physical sex is an expression of closeness and communication, not just the satisfaction of a physical appetite, no matter how strong that is. Therefore you are happiest if you can share intellectual interests with your partner in a lasting relationship.  [I guess so!]

 

 

You should look for a partner who does not take sex too seriously, someone who thinks of it as friendly rather than a goal in itself.  [Omg fuck yes!] You would enjoy a lover with whom you can spend a lot of time, working as well as playing together, perhaps.

 

 

The key word about your attitude toward love is sharing – the closer, dearer and more intimately friendly your love relationship, the happier you will be.  [well, naturally]</

Sun in the Twelfth House

 

You have a strong sense of privacy and individuality. You disclose your inner feelings only in the most intimate circumstances and only to those whom you feel are your closest friends. Such openness is, in fact, the highest honor and token of love that you can bestow upon a friend or lover.  [That’s exactly how I feel about those who read me here].

 

Because of your natural reticence, you don’t actively seek new relationships, but rather tend to wait for others to seek you out.

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Others may see your personal life as quite mysterious, attracting speculation about behind- closed-doors affairs. They will seldom be able to assess your private life accurately, but the very mystery will make you seem more attractive and desirable.  [I hope so!]

 

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Moon in Sagittarius

 

Even in scenes that would cause others to be downhearted or discouraged, you can find a spark of laughter and mirth that brightens the situation and makes it more enjoyable.  [Yup this is me – at funerals, when my friend told me his news today – I always try to see the bright side, even if the timing is terrible.  I’m not sure if it’s something I should feel bad for feeling.]

 

You should find a lover who shares your easygoing and broad approach to life.

 

Probably you have a very rich fantasy life, which some people might consider overabundant. But you create fantasies for their own sake basically, and you enjoy creating them as much as fulfilling them.

 

In the long run, your style of loving is more in the spirit of a warm, friendly fireplace on a late fall night: merry, comforting, the essence of happy comradeship.

 

 

Moon in the Twelfth House

 

You must be careful not to be too hasty in responding to a lover, and always think twice before committing yourself outright about any matter. There are many times when it is better to spare your lover’s feelings by not rushing in and telling the whole truth, even though you feel you should. [does this mean I have to hide my diary from them?]

 

No matter what kind of affair you are in, it will take a good deal of soul searching to discover your lover’s and your own true emotional motives. Hidden actions and attitudes have to be uncovered and sorted out, but the reward is a deep level of mutual self-understanding that few others achieve.

 

For you, a truly successful love relationship is one that is intensely uplifting, even cathartic.

 

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Venus in Libra

 

A quiet, uneventful affair is boring to you, for it is continual change and growth that keep you interested and creative in a love relationship.

 

You insist that you and your lover be equal, not in a static equilibrium, but rather a continuing readjustment that keeps both partners on an even basis.

 

You particularly admire physical beauty in a lover, but do not let a person’s appearance blind you to the beauty in his or her soul.

 

In the long run, you will be most satisfied with an all-around lover whose accomplishments and qualities are not just physical but extend in many directions.

 

 

Venus in the Eleventh House

 

You prefer a lover who is well coordinated physically, emotionally and socially, someone you can show off proudly to your friends.

 

In this area your judgment must be very acute so that you can separate true substance from the showy or trendy. Try not to harry your partner unnecessarily about details of dress, image and social acceptance.

 

This is particularly important, because you want your partner to be a close and dear friend whose love will endure beyond the convenience or necessity of the moment. Therefore, by being patient about small matters, you can cement a lasting relationship that will elevate you both.

 

 

Mars in Libra

 

You are likely to be the one who instigates change within a relationship, and your affairs are seldom static.

 

Although you may be consciously trying to bring about change in a spirit of honest adjustment and possibly conciliation, you may slip into a pattern of shifting and change for its own sake. Be very sure that something needs to be changed before rearranging.
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You are so interested in fairness within a relationship that you will take a back seat if you feel it will serve the interests of equality.

 

In physical affection, you are very considerate and anxious to please, making a point of knowing what your partner enjoys. Your style is quite active and volatile, and you are at your best with someone who is similarly responsive.

 

 

Mars in the Eleventh House

 

You expend extra energy in any close personal relationship even if it is not sexual, for you place a high value on loyalty and friendship, both in yourself and in others.

 

For this reason you prefer a long-lasting affair that has time to develop, rather than newer and less firm attachments.

 

On a more mundane level, because of your desire for excellence in a relationship, you gravitate toward partners who have a good reputation in such matters. As long as you remember that internal qualities are paramount, this path will be continually rewarding, but if you concentrate on external qualities, you may be just a social climber or trend follower.

 

In lovemaking itself, you strive for excellence and make every effort to create a graceful aesthetic experience that has substance as well as form.