THE LOVE TRIANGLE

In this day and age relationships don’t last very long if at all, but the LOVE TRIANGLE has had us more then one time or another. You find that person that seems to be the love of your life only for you and him or her get married……….just to find out something about them you don’t like or hate…………so here is THE LOVE TRIANGLE:

DATING: Everything begins with that first date, whether you meet that person in person or online like most do now, but either way it begins there. Humans have attraction bugs all over them, whether its there smile, there eyes,the way they smell, how they look with or without clothes on, it all factors in at some point or another, but it starts with that first date. I met my wife online after not dating for two years, I was nerves ofcourse, scared to death is more like it, BUT thankfully it went great, that was November of 2006. Now some men have side dishes(not to be calling ladies dishes or anything) that are “standbys” just in case the date he’s on goes south, black men have them, white men have them, there no color when it comes to the opposite sex folks, at all. So you go out with this guy/girl and you feel…….great, you like how she talks to you, how she pays attention to every word you say, and you like her strength, in other words…………you will want to see her again. Then you find yourself telling this girl/guy everything about you, and you hold nothing back(well that’s the way it suppose to go anyway), and then you find yourself missing them when there not there, wanting them to stay around you all the time, and then the L word comes into it(no, not lesbian), and you go from that to………………

MARRIAGE: THE ULTIMATE ACT OF LOVE, you plan it out in your head, you get the ring that she/he might like(cause yes ladies, women do purpose to men sometimes too), you say it to yourself over and over again WILL YOU MARRY ME?WILL YOU MARRY ME?, but in some cases, as with men, some of yall do want to TAKE THE PLUNG as you might call it, SELLING YOUR MANHOOD AWAY, LOCKING DOWN THE OLD BALL AND CHAIN, BEING WITH ONLY ONE WOMAN………..women too, you don’t want to be THE OLD LADY, THE HOUSEWIFE(unless he rich or something)TIEING THE KNOT, WALKING THE PLANK, but……if you get mad at a man or woman because there with someone OTHER then yourself? or you have fights with them ONLY to try to make up with them? or have feelings for them that you never had with anybody……..then my friends, MARRY THEM, cause they probably feel the same……..but if you get a man/woman that acts like your the last person to be around, or in case of a woman has a man that rather have a girl named BENZ dancing on his lap or in case of men have a girl that thinks your cheating every five minutes………………..then that leads to…………

DIVORCE: being a man that grew up with two parents that was separated I know all the signs of A BAD MARRIAGE, you argue over the smallest things, one of the parents is always out, even at night, one or both parents try to explain to you why you and mommy/daddy is not living with you any longer, and one parent talks about the other like a dog…………ive been and seen all of that. So the person you fell in love with all those years ago…….is not the person you fell in love with, either one or both is cheating, either one or both hate each other, or one or both try to make there case,which is fine……if your the only people that dealing with it, say you have children, little kids, that don’t know what’s going on???? then its not just breaking up with you wife/husband…….you got the kids involved as well, and believe me folks that messes with a kid, cause there parents will say YOU DONT HAVE TO CHOOSE or YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE WITH WHOMEVER YOU CHOOSE………but they still tell you to stay with them. I bring this up because of morning tv, namely talk shows that have screaming, uneducated people tell the people of the audience that HE AINT NO GOOD or SHE’S A HOE, well you should of thought of that when you was telling this woman/man I LOVE YOU, cause you don’t……..you loved the SEX, that’s right, the BUMPING AND GRINDING, that what you lovvved, but when that stopped and he/she was not going to do that anymore you go find another person that will.

So there you have, THE LOVE TRIANGLE, and like the BURMADA TRIANGLE once your in it, you get lost………………….SO SAY WE ALL.