Letting go….

One of the most important of life´s lessons is to learn independence, to understand freedom. This means independence from attachments, from results, from opinions, and from expectations. Breaking attachments leads to freedom, but breaking attachments does not mean abandoning a loving and meaningful relationship, a relationship that nourishes your soul. It means ending dependency on any person or thing. Love is never a dependency.

— Brian L. Weiss

This is such a wonderful statement which shows loving someone doesn not mean clinginess and desperation…to let us each have our own freedom to live to grow and to love..not to control and stiffle someone..I know because from fear of loosing the man I loved I killed the relationships…my part of it anyway..I chased, controlled and begged-.–its not what love is about,,Its trusting, and giving people space to live and breath and find their own answers…I have found this to be the biggest freedom in our lives..To love freely without fear