One night stands

I miss them sometimes. I mean, not in the sense that I’m actually going to go out and have one, but last night I was alone for a bit and found myself kind of wishing I still had the option of just going out and meeting some random guy, and having a little fling.

It’s not the actual sex that I miss, because relationship sex is WAY better (already knowing what the other likes/dislikes, feeling loved, falling asleep in his arms when we’re done). Sometimes one-night stands kind of suck in that way, really. But they’re exciting. And a little bit taboo. And I wish I still had a way to feel that once in a while.

I think some of it is that in so many areas of life, men have the power. But in a bar, looking to hook up, it’s pretty easy for a girl to feel the power of her own sexuality. I like the feeling of walking into a bar and knowing for sure that if I want sex I can get it. Feeling a guy’s eyes on me. Wondering what he looks like naked, and knowing that I’ll know very soon.

And I love the feeling of having some random guy’s attention completely fixed on me, for just that little bit of time. Feeling wanted and desired. And I love to make a man feel good. So there’s definitely something exciting about making some guy I just met cum (not like this is a difficult thing to do, or rare or something. But I like it).

I don’t really actually want to go back to that. I don’t miss some of the logistical stuff that goes with it, like trying to figure out a non-awkward way to leave as soon as possible after we’re done. Or how to make sure he’s not some crazy psycho killer guy without totally ruining the mood. But I think there’s a part of me that really craves that attention, and feels a little bit deprived of it when I’m home alone on a Saturday night, knowing that at another point in my life I could have just walked down the street to a bar and found someone.

I somewhat want to see if Noah would ever be willing to pretend to pick me up at a bar or something like that. It’s not a weird fantasy or something, but I hope he wouldn’t take it the wrong way.

i totally get it. its so hard to figure out what you want, there are good and bad parts to the single life, hopefully noah will understand that too? and probably enjoy the chase! xxx

Not gonna lie, I’ve been loving the attention I’ve been getting just by going to a bar without Chris in tow. It doesn’t ever lead to anything because I flaunt my engagement ring but having someone approach you, or make eye contact.. I love it.

The thing most women fail to realize or appreciate most times is that they probably do get that attention they are craving, they just don’t know it. There is probably some guy in that bar that is too shy to approach her, or thinks she is out of his league, or doesn’t know what to say. But he sees her, his eyes are locked on her, he sees her beauty, he relishes in the curves of her body, and wishesif only for a moment, he could be the man she wondered what it would be like to be with. Ironic thing is, those men are better lovers, I know because I am one 🙂 P.s. – I don’t mean they are fixated in the creepy sense lol more like entranced or something romantic.

Ha! I wish my wife would share a fantasy. Something to learn before you tie the knot 😉

Ew u proly don’t get as much attention as u imagine lol girls are gross u don’t know what random guy is taken. How would u like it if Noah went to a bar with his friends and someone like u walked in. Nasty. Sometimes I really hate bitches.