What do u do if u care and be damed if u dont?

What do u do?  i just listen… not really sure how to proceed,  my roomies bf is commign and talking to me abotu things because my roomie and him seem to not be able to communicate… im concerned…. i dont want to interefere in their relationship…. but hell…. its hard to see that its begining to look all one sided… her bf would give the world for her if she asked it of him… and yet  its like from his point of view shes throwing things back in his face saying im with u but i dont want u… (<—- my take and my words on what hes told me)  he is flipping out about ready to just find a way to die… and i dont know what to do… i obviously have problems communicating with my roomie lately…  i told her we needed to talk because i wanted to bring up somethigns with her that her bf is talking to me about because he can’t seem to talk about them with her…. and i feel she needs to know these things not me…. i can’t sleep now because im worried about my roomie and her bf…  not to mention my own problems not with my relationship but financially… its like everything decides to go against me….

i know if my roomies bf decides to follow through with his “disappearing”aka dying that he’s been talking to me about lately…. it would possibly crush my roomie…  but then again shes also wondering if it would have worked out between her and a another friend of hers….  its kinda of  like shes all mixed up… i dont know what to do or how to proceed in a situation like this… 

Help and advice needed and wanted… Ty.

im outties gotta try n get some sleep for class. nite nite peoples