Day 3/10

Day One: Ten things you want to say to ten different people right now.
Day Two: Nine things about yourself.
Day Three: Eight ways to win your heart.
Day Four: Seven things that cross your mind a lot.
Day Five: Six things you wish you’d never done.
Day Six: Five people who mean a lot (in no order whatsoever)
Day Seven: Four turn-offs.
Day Eight: Three turn-ons.
Day Nine: Two images that describe your life right now, and why.
Day Ten: One confession.

Day 3: Eight ways to win my heart

(I’m going to assume this is about how a woman would win my heart/affections… so that’s how I’m going to answer this)

1. Be intelligent. I am soooo turned on by intelligent women. Usually more-so for the math and science wizards, but intelligence in general is always greatly appreciated by me. I like when the woman I’m obsessed with challenges me and stimulates me intellectually. And who doesn’t love good conversations about deep stuff? And connecting on deep levels. It’s great.

2. Be compassionate/kind. Kindness towards all is something I live by, and I expect the woman I marry will be the same way. Kindness finds the lost. Kindness helps the helpless. Kindness saves the wicked. And a person who is always kind never has any enemies. And I just think people who lack compassion are cold. Some people just are born into suffering and will never escape it – it’s our responsibility as humans to help each other… ESPECIALLY those less fortunate. I don’t believe in the motto “Those who have the most should give the most”, I believe in the motto of “Those who have the most must give the most”.

3. Be there for me when I really need you. I’m so use to living my life alone, on my own, with only myself to depend on. I don’t even know how to depend on others. I just can’t do it. Because no one has ever been there for me outside of my family when I needed it. If someone really wanted to “win” my heart… being there when I need them, would mean the world to me… and I would never forget it. Only one girl has ever done that. Janice was there for me when a relative of mine passed away. I hate when people see me cry, but I cried in front of her. And she just let me hold her. And… it helped. And I’ll never forget that.

4. Don’t lie to me. I’m partially intelligent. I can figure out when someone is lying to me. And when I discover you lied, I wont let you know that I know. But you’ll have burnt that bridge to my heart. You will forever be a politician friend to me. Pretty words. Self-serving words. I prefer honesty that’s going to hurt me over a lie that would protect me.

5. Figure me out. I’m never open with my feelings. But I’m not that hard to figure out. I will deflect every question about my personal side that you throw at me, or change the subject as much as I can get away with it. Batman himself envies my narrow escapes. Someone who knows when I’m not alright and when I’m just fine will know how to do things like #3 for me. I’m just not one for opening up to others when I know that those others wont be around in another year. People never stick around for me in my life (see #3), why bother them with my details? Why waste the effort? I just take time to get to know. Time that nobody has thus far invested.

6. Let me do nice things and buy nice things for you. Let me be my romantic self. It’s how I show affection. When you tell me not to buy things or do nice things… you’re rejecting my affection. I just want my special someone to be showered in all the gifts and things she could ever want or need. I don’t do it because I feel like I have to… I do it because I want to. I always have. It’s just what I do. I want to write and recite poetry to you. I want to hold you while you sleep. I want to buy you a rose every day. I want to always have chocolate around for you. I want you to have that thing you saw in the store that you thought looked cute. I want all those things for you. So let me give them to you. I’m tacky. I’m cheesy. But when I like you, I like you and that’s the way I act. Accept that.

7. Do not judge others. Other people are just trying to be happy in their lives. Who are you to judge others? Only God can judge us. And He will.

8. Possess whatever it is about women that makes them so… feminine. Whatever it is that makes me start thinking about you without realizing it. Their lovely delicate fragile scented dark-eyed soft-voiced elegant-moving beautiful ways that I have no resistance to, as much as I have sometimes wished for it. I hate that part about me. That weakness of the flesh that I suppose all guys have by default. Lust feels so much like a thirst. And sometimes you women make me very, very, very thirsty.

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