Ker-smash

If there is one true thing you should know about me is never call me darlin (or sweetheart, or honey, or doll) … Especially, when we have no prior relationship, and you just mangled my van, with my newborn child in it… It makes me angry. Insanely angry.  

So, just when I was thinking I had had it with everything, things go even crazier…

I was merrily driving to class. (because yes I am crazy enough to go back to class just 2 weeks after having a baby.) when I was in a car wreck.

I was driving straight, and a car turned left in front of me, and viola my van is pretty messed up.

My head light and fog lamp are gone. My bumper is beyond damaged, my windshield popped its seal, my hood, grill and quater panel are damaged, my frame is bent, my passanger door doesn’t open, and my wipers are hitting the hood now. Oh and when I went to turn it back on it wouldn’t work, at all.

It looks something like this.

Of course this is what the other car looks like.

He is trying to fight the accident, saying I came from no where. Well yes, as in the light turned green, and I crossed the intersection. Or he didn’t hear me brake. Well no, I tried, but I hit him too fast, and that he was almost in a parking lot, he almost made it. 

Every argument he made the police said no, he failed to yield to oncoming traffic. I was on green, I went through my light, I had the right of way.

No one got a ticket, and I was found not at fault in the police report. 

I cleaned out my van so the insurance company can come get it in the morning, and I will be picking up a rental in the morning. I have no idea what I am getting. Apparently my policy only covers up to $30 a day. Which is only a car size. I have 3 car seats, 3 very large car  seats, I need a van. They do not pay for vans, and the out of pocket is something like 50 extra a week. She told me to go ask them to make me a deal. So I will.

I am fine, the only thing I am mad about it the fact Sirris was in the car with me. My mama bear instinct wanted to growl loudly at him. He slept through it, and when he did wake up I nursed him happily, while talking to the police officer… He wanted to check to see if I was nursing. (he was a bit on edge, repsectful but on edge, the fort has had several violent killings int he past week.) I mean he had to make sure I wasn’t holding something dangerous in my little bundle. 

But go me for nursing without fear!

The insurance company fears they will total my van… sigh… I can’t afford that, because I need a new one, and I still owe on this one… 

It has brand new week old tires on it. 

Sigh…. I sometimes wonder why, and I say I am not worried, and I know it will all work out, but still, I worry. 

Yuck, I think I just need to go to bed… 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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That really really stinks. … im so sorry

March 26, 2013

Shouldn’t the guy who hit you have to pay for your damage?

Good lord! When it rains, it pours. I’m glad you two are okay.What an ass. I’m glad the police defended you. I don’t understand why the insurance company won’t pay for what you need. It’s quite obvious that a little car isn’t going to be enough space.

very glad you and baby-man are okay. The car situation will be inconvenient to be sure, but I’m glad that the precious cargo is unharmed. And go you for feeding!

March 26, 2013

*hug* glad you and the babe are okay. How lame that this happened 🙁

March 26, 2013

oh that sucks!! I hope you can figure something!!!Not what you need right now!! Ryn: i just feel like when people ask “are you going to have more?” they are saying well you have a girl and a boy.. you should stop. it’s just a little annoying…

I’m so sorry this stress is hitting you. Just have faith and let go and “let God”. I don’t know if you are religious and I hope I am not overstepping. It is a praise that you two were not hurt seriously and are still alive. In tough times, try to hold fast to your blessings and know that in the grand scheme of things..this too shall pass. (((HUG)))

March 27, 2013

The amount of accidents I’ve nearly been in with Pickle in the car because of arsehole drivers!! WHAT IS WRONG WITH THESE PEOPLE??

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March 28, 2013

RYN: Thanks for the note! I am going to check out our state’s exemption form to see exactly what it says.