When It Rains It Fucking Pours…..
Well we are no longer at our apartment. We had to be out last Thursday. We ended up getting a storage unit for all of our stuff, PLUS some of our stuff is here at my moms and some stuff is at his moms. Ugh. That day was a nightmare. It was just Pat and I because my mom had to work, Pats mother is worthless, and my father…yeah, ok. On top of that I had the kids plus baby Em. [I watch her for her mom and dad. They also work with Pat. She’s 5 months old!! :)] So all the kids and I came to my mothers house and Pat finished moving us. It took him until 5 in the morning Friday to get to my moms house to tell me he was done and then he turned around and went to work that day too. Crazy?
So we’ve been staying at my moms. It’s been really stressful. My mom only has a 2 bedroom townhouse which is big enough for her and the girls. Add Pat, Me and the twins to the mix is a rather cramped and emotional place. I’ve cried a lot. I hate not having my own place, my own room, my own everything. I get so stressed out that I am surprised my hair hasn’t fallen the fuck out. I have all my depression and anxiety meds. but they aren’t really helping. I love my mom to death, I can hang out with her all damn day long, but I CAN NOT live with her. We are too much alike and we butt heads all the time.
Well we had a house that we were going to go to on the 4th. I think I told you guys about it, not sure, but it’s a 2 bedroom half a house for 635 a month plus utilities. So the owner is trying to sell this house and he had a couple looking at it. We talked to him two weeks ago [before he went out of town] and he said that the people weren’t interested and that we had the house and that he’d call us Monday [the 4th] in the morning. Well the 4th came and no call in the morning. I called that afternoon and his wife said he was working and to call when he gets home. Ok fine. We called at 6 that night and someone answered and said he wasn’t available. I called him back at 7 and he answered. I asked him what the hell was going on. He said now he didn’t know and that he has to talk to his realitor about something and he said he’d call us back and let us know. Needless to say, he hasn’t called. HOWEVER, we do have a back up plan. There are these brand new apartments up the road from where we use to live. The are income based so it would help us a lot. It’s 621 a month and we only pay gas/electric. I can still have a washer and dryer [WOO] and there is a dishwasher in this one. BROOKSIDE is what the place is called. [You can click the link and look around. We’ll be getting a 2 bedroom. The have floor plans and a photo tour. We got there tomorrow to do our financial interview. Pat and I can’t make more than $43,000 a year…which we don’t. Pat only makes $30,000-32,000. Cross your fingers.
In other news I thought we were having baby 3. I’ve been having symptoms of pregnancy…fatigue, gas, nausea, cramps, spotting…anyways, I did a home test and it came up negative. I’ll wait until my birth control gets to the end if I don’t get a period I’ll do another one. I take my birth control EVERYDAY so I don’t understand what is going on. I’m hoping it’s just stress. We can’t afford another baby right now, and frankly, I don’t want another one right now. The twins are enough…for now. 🙂
I finally got my Workers Compensation Board number. Hopefully I can start going to physical therapy now for my hand/wrist.
Um, Jessie also turned 13 on the 4th. I’m getting old.
Well I think that’s about it for now. I have to get ready to go and drop Em off to her parents and get Pat. I’ll update soon. I love you guys!
♥ Amanda
That’s a fantastic deal for only 621 a month. Wishing you luck…
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*hugs* I hope you are able to get out oson.
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I have my fingers crossed for you hon!
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that looks like a nice apartment complex 🙂
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i totally feel you on living with the parents we’re at my in laws and it sucks ass!!! it’s 4 bedroom but it’s his parents my sil, us and our 3 little one’s. hope you can find a place soon!!
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