I’m Not Your Wife

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I got a stupid text from Shithead on Mon.  He wanted me to come over and help him with something.  He wouldn’t tell me what was wrong, but he needed to tell me to my face.  Whatever.  I’m not your fucking wife.  I’m not at your beck and call. 

I told him I was busy.  I should have said fuck you, I’m not about to be anywhere near you.  I didn’t though. Damn missed opportunities.

I didn’t think anymore of it until today.  I text him to find out when he was coming to get Doll because he hadn’t been bothering me all week (YAY).  He turned all martyr-y.  You haven’t heard from me because you were too busy for me.  I just wanted your help.  I said I was busy.  Well you could have given me five minutes of your time.

Really?  Am I supposed to feel guilty for not wanting to go to his house that he lives with his sife in?  Am I supposed to feel guilty for not wanting to be groped and sexually harassed?

Honestly I do feel a twinge of guilt for hurtng his feelings, maybe.  But really I didn’t want to be in a room alone with him.  I know what he’ll do and I don’t want to be in that situation. 

Now he is texting me every five minutes to see if she is ready for him to come pick her up. 

I feel knots in my stomach thinking about him and how he aggravates me.  He makes my life miserable.  I wish I could take his visits away from him.

Stupid bastard.

Y’all take care,

 

Mandy

 

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June 5, 2009

I’m not your fucking wife. I’m not at your beck and call. Hell…even IF you were his fuckin wife, you shouldn’t be at his beck and call. I know mine isnt!

June 5, 2009

*hugs*

June 5, 2009

Can’t let him get to you like that.

You can’t take his visits away, but you could legally be a LOT harder on him than you are. There wouldn’t be squat he could do about it, either, except simmer, or cry to his whatever she is. So he should be very thankful you don’t have him by the n**s and squeezing!

June 7, 2009

RYN: They know what they are doing. They know the kids; I don’t. Information about the kids would be helpful, but I am given the runaround when I ask for it. Things won’t get better until I build my own rapport with the kids who are coming to the social skills camp i designed.. and I am independent and don’t need help from anyone there.

June 10, 2009

life is better when some people just dont exsist anymore… whatever hes a piece of shit